My 15 year old was cught twice with his girlfriend in my house he told me all he does is think about sex and masterbates alot like everyday is that normal for a young boy?
2007-03-24 16:19:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Hormones are going crazy at that age. Masterbating every day is perfectly normal. And I remember when it seemed like all I did was think about sex. I wouldn't worry as long as he also has outside interests--sports, anime movies, computer games, whatever. And still having some guy pals to hang out with sometimes (not just his girlfriend) is important. Encourage him to maintain those habits, since those will help him stay mentally, physically, and emotionally healthy throughout his life. Praise him for his success in his other activities (when he makes a basket for his basketball team, or beats a level on his video game, etc.). No matter how old they are, kids still want and need their parents' approval (even if they don't let you know). Girlfriends don't last forever, but parents do!
2007-03-24 16:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by kacey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Completely normal. Invest in a book that describes teenage
boys, their sexual drives and preferences. Psychology
I. By the way, 15 today is like 25 fifteen years ago. You
may remember him as that cute little baby and you might
not be ready to think of him as a young man...but he is
and ya gotta accept it. Your word, "caught" is a negation
of his budding puberty. I know people that accept the fact
that their son is maturing and actually let girlfriends
sleep over...where they can include them in the family.
This may seem radical to you, but as long as they're under
your roof, you know where they are and what they're doing.
Better than worrying about them being out on the streets.
Stress protection and respect and you'll find out that your
relationship with your son will improve and pull you closer.
Might be a good idea to find out how the parents of the
girl feel about this without giving away the details. Withold
judgement and remember what it was like when you were
young.
2007-03-24 16:43:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 is too young for sex. Have you had the talk with him? He needs to know the consequences of having sex. Are there no rules of the house like no girlfriends in the hose with no adult present?
Its hard to believe he told you he masturbates but yes that is very common for 15, up to several times a day. Let him know that masturbation is normal and ok for him but having sex is not.
2007-03-24 23:46:12 · answer #3 · answered by milittleguy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal, But educate him in sex. Dont let him have sex until he is older and able to make better choices on that subject. You dont want him to get a girl pregnant by accident.
Sex is the biggest distraction to teens. Clouds the mind on what they really need to be focusing on.
Just explain that he isnt ready at that age to be having sex with anouther person right now.
2007-03-24 17:27:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of boys masterbate at 15 years old, i think its completely normal, and guys and girls around that age are already starting to have sex(sorry to break it to you) nobody wants to think there child would be doing it but they are... im not saying he's had sex, but it wouldnt be a surprise.. if he's says he;s masterbating everyday, i would just be happy that he wasnt out having sex.. he cant get any girl pregnant if he's only having contact with his hand..
2007-03-24 16:23:48 · answer #5 · answered by mrs.contreras 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its normal. Hes 15. He is going through puberty. He has lots of hormones in his body right now.
Just tell him to keep it in his pants for the time being, unless he want to be a father.
2007-03-24 19:24:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. yes that is normal for a teenaged boy to think about sex..it is a phase he is going to go through and he will grow out of it one day..
2. the abnormal part is that he would tell you that..most boys his age wouldnt tell.
2007-03-24 19:09:22 · answer #7 · answered by alison b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. it's normal. the sex thing is kinda bad, but masterbating? no.
2007-03-24 18:33:43 · answer #8 · answered by BAMF. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
I think about my studies (mostly about my Honors Math chances), DDR, BeatMania, gaming, and about 25% of my brain is devoted to relationships.
2007-03-24 16:22:27 · answer #9 · answered by Sean 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i am 16 and it is completely fing normal
Ive been caught several times with my gf and i masturbate when needed
as long as he knows what he's doing and wearing protection it is fine
2007-03-25 03:15:19 · answer #10 · answered by tyler g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋