Something is different. She's asleep now. I think she met someone. MALE. We agreed that one day we both would like to move on and have families. But she might be too ashamed to be truthful to me. I'm really in a bad spot. I might F up a beatifull thing. :( help ! She will be pissed that i went on the web and mentioned this. SOMETHING ISN'T RIGHT!!!
2007-03-24 16:10:38 · 7 answers · asked by Tall Chicky 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
My Baby Girl....I got only so few things that keep me happy in this world!!! I hope I'm just being a panicky stupid chick. :(
2007-03-24 16:12:53 · update #1
:( waiting...not right...this is all I got.
If she wants something else...she can say so....this is terrifying! today totally fell appart. :(
2007-03-24 16:16:09 · update #2
If she hasn't come with 'belly-full', thank your stars and keep on trying to win her back. Good luck.
2007-03-24 16:36:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
girl, stop panicing here. it's obvious you truely love this girl and your feelings are very strong for her, it sounds like you two have an open relationship but, when it really comes down to it, you are not as openminded at all, you sound a bit like me, haha she can have her fun when she is gone but as long as you don't know about it ( i might be wrong if so, sorry) you also sound like you two can talk open ly about things, why not just talk to her sweety, don't come to her with, " i know you been with someone else while gone" nah, just talk , ask her questions, but be prepared for the answers hun, she might say something you don't want to hear. Just have faith in yourself, if it won't last between the two of you there will be someone else again, trust me, you will feel bad for a little while but i am a strong believer in everything happens for a reason, you are strong and will get over it.
good luck hun
2007-03-25 05:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by dutchcutie68 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she was in Iraq in the military then she could be suffering from PTSD. Or she could have been sexually assaulted and be afraid to talk about it. Sadly, rape is much more common in the military than in the civilian world. Reportedly two female soldiers died of dehydration in Iraq because they refused to drink at night because male soldiers were gang-raping women who went to the latrines.
Maybe you could try and talk her into going into therapy or counseling with you and try to figure out the root of the problem. It may be something completely different from what you expect.
2007-03-25 01:49:04 · answer #3 · answered by Rose D 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
most of the soldiers in iraq are male. im sure she has an emotional bond with them because they went through a lot together, this is normal. just because she has a lot of male friends doesn't mean she is sleeping with them. relax and see how things go, dont be paranoid without cause.
2007-03-25 06:42:17 · answer #4 · answered by Matt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why dont you just ask her. Sitting there wondering and hurting isnt good for either of you. You need to talk to her. And just because she is acting strange now doesnt mean its going to last forever. When I got back from Iraq it took me almost 8 months to grasp the concept that I was back in the US.
2007-03-24 23:28:52 · answer #5 · answered by Stevie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Relax...she's been away a while and maybe become a little different. You really don't know anything yet. Give her a chance to come around and talk to you.
2007-03-24 23:29:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would she be ashamed to like a male?
2007-03-24 23:32:56 · answer #7 · answered by Gays Die! 1 1 · 1⤊ 4⤋