What is so wrong about a good 3some fling?

Question

I really want to feel a smooth woman agains me and my husband. I'm sure it will drive him wild too.

This is a fantasy that most people have. Why not do it? Afterall, you only live once.

Answer 1

For some of us, there are moral concerns to be taken into account. Otherwise, threesomes are a blast! BUT, they are also very risky! You must keep in mind that you would be giving him permission to have sex with another woman. You're also indulging a very powerful fantasy. Both of these items could come back to haunt you in a big way. It sounds like it's your idea, so the risk is probably not nearly as great as if it were his, but you'd still be risking permanent damage to your marriage relationship.

The big question is: is it really worth taking the chance? Afterall, you would be giving him permission to have sex with another woman... That's not something we men take lightly. He might be tempted to bend or even ignore the rules given the right conditions.

Answer 2

Do you think that he would let you have another dude with you and him? Have you asked him about it?

I think it is something that younger people would be more likely to do then older ones.

What if a girl was with two guys and they were both pleasing her and doing everything that they could to make her happy, do you think she would ever forget that and if she wanted to do it again what would be the best way?

They say one can never replicate an experience exactly I wonder if that is true? If it would not be the same place, the same time, the same people it might be a whole different experience.

If you want this and your husband agrees then go for it if you can find that other person you want in there, but that would not be me, no offense. I do not like women in that way never have. And have had some good friends that were females some that did it, and some that never would, like me.

Answer 3

Who says it's wrong? If it's your hubby then maybe it wouldn't be such a good idea. Otherwise, if it's ok with both of you, set some ground rules and go for it. It seems like you're the one who wants to do this the most, so make sure you get more action than your husband does.

Answer 4

Your right. Why not do it? Theres no reason to ask this question. And I bet your husband wants it 10 times more than you do. Just make sure your man wont fall for this other woman though and vise versa. I can see it screwing up a relationship if you take it too seriously.

Answer 5

I can think of one good reason. Quite a few people who felt like you do and went on to fulfill their fantasy, ended up miserable or divorced or miserable and divorced. There's an excellent chance that it will not be what you expect. If you're willing to risk it, go ahead.

Answer 6

Your describing just that a fantasy!
Try reality, and ask yourself "what if" then think of everything you can good or bad, but include the biggies like pregnancy, AIDS, Jealously!
Harm to marriage, and your own personal self esteem!

Answer 7

Well as long as you able to deal with the consequence after words. I mean what if he decides he wants to have sex with you only if theres another women for him. What if you begin to feel that you can't satisfy him one on one. You better think real hard about all of the ''WHAT IFS'' and the HOW COME'S" before you commit to that. He might decide you aren't enought and you might start wondering if his thinking about another women when his with you instead of thinking about you.

Answer 8

if husband is least bit of jealous guy or if want to keep him it is prob bad idea. If you do it once it could mk him think you would do it again w sum1 else and you wuldn feel neeed 2 tell him

Answer 9

Absolutly nothing if you both consent to the person and have a plan. without forethought your in for lots of trouble.

Answer 10

If you & your husband are into 3somes,I would'nt think that it should be an issue, just do it & enjoy,but don't forget to participate,learn & do.