my first kiss was nothing what i dreamed of. i hate it i hate it i hate it. i was kinnda force into it and every time i look back at it i start to cry. i wish i had nvr let him kiss me. how do i get over that?
2007-03-24 16:05:08 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Silly, not to worry, those "first" kisses are not the real first kiss, the real one comes when you bring your mind, body and soul to it. I think those trial pecks are just that, everyone tries out what its like. The REAL FIRST KISS will leave you feeling warm, weak, dreamy and you'll know it was it and so will he. ;<}
2007-03-24 16:09:03 · answer #1 · answered by OPTIMIST 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you were a bit early on that decision (as small as it sounds...don't we all want something memorable...and for that we need patience...unlike some, who want to hop frogs and look for the prince...much like betting money blindly, you can simply gamble those precious kisses and never find someone...even if you get the money back, you won't get all those emotionally moist kisses back) Don't do what others tell you, take your time if you think that will get you to the perfect person (this time hopefully of whom you've dreamed of). Don't do it as a tradition (if everyone's doin it, you have to do it as well...they might never know what a real kiss is from prince charming)
It comes to you, yet it takes patience, and with everything will hopefully what you dreamed of.
That's just 'first' of many things you know that will happen, and I hope it will be a guide...afterall there is a whole different meaning to it when it is your 'first'...
2007-03-25 00:04:57 · answer #2 · answered by I Hsuya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry that happend. I seriously know how you feel, I always wanted my first kiss to be special (like what you see on the movies) and something i would remember, but yeah it didn't happen that way, and after it happend i regretted giving my first kiss to guy who i think now is eww...lol . But don't dwell over it because over time you will forget it even happend and you will find better a better guy who will sweep you off your feet and replace that first nasty kiss with a sweet and memorable one. And besides practice makes perfect for that one special guy, not saying that you should go kiss on every guy, but you know what i am saying. Good Luck! Hope this helped you
2007-03-24 23:14:44 · answer #3 · answered by justinsbabygurl21406 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the club. We have ALL kissed someone we regretted later.
It's just part of growing up. It can't hurt you. Know that we all have made those mistakes and just try to stop thinking about it.
Soon you will kiss a boy and it will be something really special and magical.
Obviously you didn't have feelings for this guy.
When you kiss someone you are in love with or atleast have a crush on, it will be a much better experience. I promise.
Don't feel bad. You did nothing wrong that we ALL haven't done.
2007-03-24 23:11:23 · answer #4 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time honey, and just look at it as an experience in life. You'll get over it. You are soooooo young, don't worry it might be ugly at first but when you get your next kiss which will hopefully be better you won't even think of the first one. And just so you know, not everyone has a perfect first kiss, that's rare :)
2007-03-24 23:09:05 · answer #5 · answered by Pretty Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
....hmm there's nothing you can do now....maybe you hate that kiss because the one you dreamed of was far superior...see dreams only end up screwing us over....we look forward to it coming true and when it does it seems all wrong and nothing how we expected...i think you had high expectations and were let down....i regret going out with certain people too...i wish that it would have never happened but its too late....all i could tell u is that there will be better to come....look forward to that and dont let a guy force you into it......
2007-03-24 23:12:37 · answer #6 · answered by yoshi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh No.....
First a kiss really is just a kiss...it is not an important thing in the large scheme of things.
If I was you I would not consider this experience my first kiss since you felt forced or pressured.
Your REAL first kiss will be one you give to someone, not one that is taken from you.
2007-03-24 23:10:37 · answer #7 · answered by Axel M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex...but on a more serious note. Nothing is what it is supposed to be. Don't plan your life too strictly because it leaves more room for disappointment. I'ts like Christmas when you really expect a gift and get something else...you feel disappointed but if you don't expect things you can't get sad over them. '
If it makes you feel better wash your mouth out and vow that your lips are reborn and will not kiss anyone else until you are ready (meaning you accept that it may not be perfect) similar to a reborn virgin thing.
2007-03-24 23:10:08 · answer #8 · answered by Adara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You werent specific about being "forced" But if he did the forcing, stay away from him and if he comes near you tell him that youll report him to the authorities! No one is allowed to make you do something you don't want to do!
If you felt like you were forced by peer pressure,(like at a party,kissing games, etc. ) put it behind you, and know that when you meet that special someone, your kiss will be AMAZING! and that my dear will be your FIRST REAL KISS!
Good Luck!
2007-03-24 23:11:48 · answer #9 · answered by SpiritualSeeker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By making sure that the next kiss if truly wanted. Just tell yourself that the next kiss will be your first kiss from a true "man" or "woman".
2007-03-24 23:07:54 · answer #10 · answered by sapientia2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋