we just started going out last week i asked him out (i know girls arnt supposed to ask guys out ) and he said yes but we just act like friends and it is confusing me to the point of no return .
2007-03-24 15:56:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
lol what do you mean girls are not supposed ask a man out? its totally sexy when a woman takes action!! haha i had to get that off my chest.
to be honest its hard to give any advice when your question is so general. anyone who could give the best advice would have to consider what TYPE of guy he is, whats his character. i mean one type of guy could be a little shy or nervous and be TOTALLY into you, or he could want you for other reasons, maybe having the wrong intentions. maybe he felt awkard when you asked him, and said yes. girl email me i can give you good advice but i gotta know some info!
2007-03-24 16:05:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe he's shy or wants to take things slow. Has he had many relationships? There could be a lot of reasons why he acts like that. I mean did you guys really know each other before you started dating? I think you should give it a little bit. I mean he did say yes to you right? So just go on some dates and see if the chemistry is there! If after a few dates... its still not going where you want it- then you know what to do!
2007-03-24 23:00:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always follow your first instinct. Trust me, even though you don't know me, I've learned this the hard way. If you feel like he's not into you, you have to put your fear aside and ask him directly and if he says that he does like you then let him know how he makes you feel when he acts like you guys are just friends. If he says he's not sure if he likes you then let him go and give him time. Things happen for a reason and believe it or not, there are TONS of guys out there.
2007-03-24 23:01:04 · answer #3 · answered by Pretty Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy, if a girl asked me out, I would be absolutely estatic, because it would be proof that girl likes me and I would be totally clear to try being romantic/touchy/close, whatever within reason. If he doesnt show any of that hes probably not into you or he is just confused with you asking. Try to be a little mote intimate with him than usual. Or just flat out ask him.
2007-03-24 23:03:09 · answer #4 · answered by Rocco Fringuello 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, girls can ask guys out. Who says you can't?
And secondly, you just started going out. He may be very shy. Just give him some time to get to know you.
2007-03-24 23:00:49 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on 3 things
1. how old you are
2. what do you expect from him
3. how experienced he is at dating
2007-03-24 23:01:23 · answer #6 · answered by iseemen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he wants you to take the lead in everything. find another guy.
2007-03-24 22:59:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to give you a snarling.
2007-03-24 22:59:18 · answer #8 · answered by Joe Rockhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask the guy.
2007-03-24 23:00:33 · answer #9 · answered by Whetin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋