2007-03-24 15:50:53 · 12 answers · asked by Lucy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
duh
2007-03-24 16:02:30 · answer #1 · answered by markettab1985 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a great question! Why do people make such a big deal of it? I mean is it not every women's dream when they walk down the isle to have ALL self-worth taken away from them by some Bimbo? To have your trust in someone torn to pieces....to feel like you were not good enough in some way for your husband therefore its YOUR fault that they cheated....is that not what every young girl dreams of? And lets not forget us guys who get cheated on....I can not think of anything that can raise a mans self esteem or self worth like having his wife screw some other guy. I am sure that all the guys on here will tell you...if they will tell the truth....that in the locker room or club house all we talk about is how great it would be if our wives would go screw the hot guy next door....that would make our life complete! What REAL man would not love having his ego crushed like a melon? Why the only thing better that I can think of would be a work boot planted right square in my nuts......just think of the joy if you could find out that your wife was cheating on you just as someone drop kick your bag.....Oh that would truly be heaven on earth!
Thanks for the two points....door knob.
2007-03-24 23:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by oldman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because it's a serious breach of trust. How serious it is depends on what kind of relationship it was. If it was just two people shacking up well that hurts but you can move on pretty easily.
If it was a real relationship of love like marriage, where there are vows and the expectation that this relationship would last and mean something, then it's an even more serious breach of trust and is extremely hurtful. Having a spouse cheat on you is probably one of the most painful experiences a person can go through - and it can seriously damage a person's self-image and esteem on top of destroying a relationship.
2007-03-24 22:58:51 · answer #3 · answered by Jon S 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because it is a big deal, the worst thing one could do to the other.
2007-03-24 23:06:33 · answer #4 · answered by old man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg omg u did not just ask that ?...seriously dude? ok say u fall head over heels for this girl and she's ur world and everything and she makes u feels awesome and u love her w/all u've got, and she says she loves u too and then one day u find out she's been screwing some other guy. wouldn't u be a lil crushed and slightly pissed?
2007-03-24 23:01:51 · answer #5 · answered by choux pastry heart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask urself this question...how would U feel if U were cheated on...knowin that the person U love was in bed w/ someone else....not happy with U anymore...how would that all make U feel...think about it...
2007-03-24 22:57:46 · answer #6 · answered by Kim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because its a betrayal... most likely un -expected and it hurts emotionally. Unless you have experienced this personally, it is hard to explain. Each person reacts in different ways. It does depend on each individual situation.
2007-03-24 22:57:51 · answer #7 · answered by Lucky's Mom 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
because they don't want to get AIDS OR ANY OTHER HORRIBLE TD JUST BECAUSE THEY TRUSTED SOMEONE. If its not such A BIG DEAL THEN BE UPFRONT WITH THE PERSON AND TELL THEM - HEY, I WANT TO SLEEP WITH ANOTHER PERSON, IS THAT OKAY AND LET THEM DECIDE IF THEY WANT AIDS.
2007-03-24 23:11:29 · answer #8 · answered by live&learn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question must be a joke.
Let me guess, you cheated and your partner is giving you crap for it?
so stupid.
2007-03-24 23:00:50 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how would you feel if your mate cheated on you?
then ask that question........i dont think you will.
2007-03-24 23:11:41 · answer #10 · answered by nobodyspeical00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it destroys the marriage and if there are children affects their lives too.
2007-03-24 23:34:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋