2007-03-24 15:50:38 · 14 answers · asked by Lucy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because it is a big deal! It's a betrayal of trust.
2007-03-24 15:53:19 · answer #1 · answered by Lady J 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because most sensitive and normal people feel like their relationships are special and unique. When one person shares a relationship with someone else it is down playing the special factor in the main relationship. There are also feelings of being lied to, and trust factors that are broken. It is a big deal to most people, and if you dont consider it a big deal than make sure your significant other feels the same way....so no one gets hurt.
2007-03-24 15:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by muse_10999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because being in a loving relationship is about trust and honesty.
Wait what kinda cheated ? like in a relationship or are you about cheated out of money ? I see you said cheated and not cheated on . Thats two totally different things.
2007-03-24 16:05:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it hurts. In one relationship of 9 months, I was cheated twice. I suggest if you do not want to be with the person, why be in a relationship where both are going to hurt each other? Leave and move on and don't stay and cheat.
2007-03-24 15:57:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you mean being cheated on? If so the big deal is because it is hurtful. It makes the person that was cheated on feel stupid, inadequate and unlovable. It is very hard to overcome.
2007-03-24 15:55:24 · answer #5 · answered by sugarfoot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess you must be the one who cheated? do you feel good after you being cheated by someone??
2007-03-24 15:56:02 · answer #6 · answered by TO 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honest most of them want some one to feel sorry for them, , they dont want to tell what they did to cause the cheatting, only to tell the part ,they their man are women cheatted on them,, , let get real,, it 2 side to every story,,,
2007-03-25 03:15:46 · answer #7 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what if it was you being cheated on it is a ******* big deal its your dam husband or wife
2007-03-24 15:55:20 · answer #8 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRUST< HONESTY< caring, you feel hurt, ugly, not good enough, can I trust the next idiot? I can go on and on.
2007-03-24 15:54:53 · answer #9 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually its fear of happening it again.thats reality but dont worry theres always a second chance.
2007-03-24 16:04:10 · answer #10 · answered by ysabelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋