2007-03-24 15:33:49 · 15 answers · asked by gi joe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She won't cheat any more .Will she cheat any less?We are given the same lessons over and over until we learn them or die of old age.If you need to ask other people for their opinion on this,you are going to make a choice based on what?Somebody agreeing with your inclination to do it again?If you can figure out what you are getting from this relationship that is worth the humiliation,you've already made up your mind.Good luck with your journey.
2007-03-24 15:46:28 · answer #1 · answered by kevin k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question is, do you want her back? A lot of times when someone cheats they are getting something they were missing at home. I said a lot of times not all the time. Why don't you go to marriage counseling and see from there? You didn't give much to go on. If she is sincere and wants to make your marriage work, then give her a chance. Set boundaries with her. Tell her that if she does it again you are gone, and if she does, stick with what you say. Don't just take her back and expect her to do all of the work. Its going to require a conscious effort on bothy of your part. Trust has been broken and things may never be quite the same, but if you love each other you will be closer for overcoming this.
2007-03-24 22:45:42 · answer #2 · answered by Mistifish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is something you choose to do and so there's a reason she did it. Most of the time people who cheat just cheat again cause they never dealt with why they did it in the first place. i would try to get some outside help first and if you still have doubts than i would leave. It's not something you should feel guilty about. You deserve better
2007-03-24 22:57:41 · answer #3 · answered by blessed mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing is to ask yourself these questions;
How long has she been cheating?
Is she still seeing that person?
Does she still Really love you?
Can you ever look at her again and not think of what she did and if she's doing it again?
Could you even possibley forgive and forget?
If you think you can forgive and forget and give her a second chance, then yes, take her back. If not, well, give her up.
2007-03-24 22:47:11 · answer #4 · answered by brybry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can't guarantee that she won't cheat again and you will never completely trust her not to.Something made her cheat the first time and if both of you never settled the issue then she may very well have a hidden desire to do it again but be more careful.That's a tough decision to make.
2007-03-24 22:48:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i feel you should take her back and give her another chance if she is truley sorry and remoresful for what she has done to you and this marriage. Seek marriage counseling if need be as well.. Good luck to the both of you and i hope you will be able to get past this and move on together with time.
2007-03-24 22:59:05 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you could trust her again. But that would take alot of time I am sure. Good luck in whatever you decide.
2007-03-24 22:40:52 · answer #7 · answered by PinkHighHeels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there is always someone else ready to fill the position.
2007-03-24 22:42:36 · answer #8 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really can't give any kind of opinion without more information, sorry!
2007-03-24 22:38:07 · answer #9 · answered by katbyrd41 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick that ***** down the stairs and lock the door
2007-03-24 22:41:38 · answer #10 · answered by besthusbandever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋