but she doesn't want to have sex. She's a VIRGIN. I told her to stop telling me this because it is playing with me and she just thinks this is funny. She tells me how she thinks about it all the time and "really wants to do things to me" but then she says she's not ready. She thinks that this is a game. We've been with eachother for a year and 4 months. I have not had sex with anyone and of course not her. So I really get in need of some but I wait because I love her. Her doing this isn't right. She doesn't let me touch her on her breast or down there either. I respect that and all, but she likes to be naked in front of me but i can't touch her. Again, I talk to her bout it and she just laughs and play the "i'm sorry i didnt know" game with me. But she still does it. Telling me she is sexually frustrated all the time is not helping. I ask, she says she's not ready.
Does anyone know her freaking motive? I don't wanna leave her because that is just wrong. Is she a control freak
2007-03-24 15:24:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yahoo is definetly not aplace for sex questions[
2007-03-24 15:31:39 · answer #1 · answered by blinkiboy89 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
This girl is into playing games, games are for children, sex isn't. Sounds like she has some power control issues, it's not healthy, very disturbing, especially if she is naked in front of you, tell her to stop all the stupid game playing, or you'll leave. Say what you mean, mean what you say. Life is too short to waste on people unworthy of you respect.
2007-03-24 22:37:47 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well she obviously has trouble respecting your boundaries and doesn't mind putting you in compromising positions. I have no idea her motive, but I do consider it to be a red flag.
It is like showing you dinner when you are hungry, then taking it away. It's great she is still a virgin, but it doesn't sound like she respects her body or you very much to be showing you all the time.
I would say be very careful and perhaps consider finding someone else. You want someone who can help uplift and encourage and strengthen you in your beliefs, not try to give you reasons to slip up.
Good luck.
2007-03-24 22:31:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Aww well its sweet of you to wait for her, but her behavior is probably very annoying an frustrating for you becasue you don't know what she wants. Maybe she wants to know if she turns you on without even touching her, and if your the one she really wants to have sex with. Maybe instead of asking people on yahoo what they think, you should talk to your gf. Just sit her down and say something like this" Hun, you know i love you but it really fustrates me when you tease me with your beautiful body, and of course i will wait for you but i don't know what to do when you do this to me....." and then yeah whatever else you would like to add in there. But Good Luck to you, and hopefully your "horny" gf calms down for you.
2007-03-24 23:06:34 · answer #4 · answered by justinsbabygurl21406 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should dump her *** she is a tease! If she doesnt want to have sex tell her to keep her clothes on!!! I really hope you are old enough to be having sex.....like over 16!!!
2007-03-24 22:33:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's getting something out of doing this to you and it isn't right. It's a serious nasty streak and I would be VERY careful with this one! You might want to find someone new who knows what she wants, one way or another.
2007-03-24 22:29:18 · answer #6 · answered by danl747 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
she probably wants to but is scared. she shouldnt mess with you like. getting a you turned on and backing off is frustrating to you im sure. tell her not to rub on you cause it frustrates you sexually. when she tries stop her immediatly.
2007-03-24 22:30:59 · answer #7 · answered by stupidgirll74 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
SHES CRAXY
do alittle talk if it still don work
dump her
theres no point in lovein someone who dont loves u back
2007-03-24 22:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
She's a tease. I would dump her, she's just playing games with you. I respect you for respecting her, but that's ridiculous! You deserve someone who won't mess with your emotions like that.
2007-03-24 22:29:29 · answer #9 · answered by Boots 3 · 7⤊ 1⤋
The name for this is "c0ck-tease." Tell her stop unless she wants to be serious.
2007-03-24 22:30:16 · answer #10 · answered by cireengineering 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
its a very confusing time for a girl at that stage. she will do it when she is ready, when both of you are ready. dont rush her. let her do what she wants.
2007-03-24 22:29:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋