I am a 21 yearl old Homosexual male, I am currently in a very, Sick & Disfunctional relathionship, I live in the U.S.A., I have been wanting to leave my relatioship but I dont have a job, since because of the Dayli arguments I lost my Job because my Partner could not keep things beetwen me and him and he had to let every one else know and make me look like the monster of the movie, My life has become Horror movie and well the sad part is I have no one who can Help, not even my own family and friends well I have none, all I have is an Airline Ticket to anyware in the United States and the Possibility of finding a Job and saving maybe 2 or 3 hundred dollars before he kicks me out of the house, since not even 10 hours ago he was trying to do just that, and well I have no were to go, I dont have even a car in which I could maybe sleep in. so please if you have an advice let me know. oh by the way yes I have checked if there are any programs around here that can help, and there is no luck.
2007-03-24 15:17:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Please if you have the time to shine some light towards me and give me some advice E-mail me at
estebanjose21@hotmail.com
2007-03-24 15:30:07 · update #1
You have a plane ticket? Use it and leave. You fly somewhere, most likely a big city... Lets take Chicago. Fly there, go to Howard Brown Health Center, or Broadway Youth Center for example. Do searches for gay youth programs, support groups for whatever city you have in mind. Jobs, roomates, can be found at www.craigslist.org. Post an add there to rent space on a couch, until you get on your feet, and can figure things out. There are people you can ask, an honest explaination always goes better than dramatic 'he said/he said'. You have control of your life, no one else. You'll be stronger for leaving.
2007-03-24 15:33:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen baby boy by you not haven't a job or car its a control issue.Your lover is getting the kick out of you worrying about were you going to sleep or get food or clothes from.I was in the same situation.With my sister because I didn't have a job or nowhere to go she would take advantage of the situation.And I was only sixteen yrs old trying to finish my education.If you don't have a college education.You can go get a job at a retail store.Work there for six month then go apply at the bank and get a job.You only need six months of cashier experience.You save a little bit money in the bank then you go get a cheap single apartment.Then you apply for school and go to school two to three times out of a week.Then you get a financial aid.You will be working .going to school.and you will have finacanl aid to help you.The people's who want help you with your situation are not your friends or family.
2007-03-31 13:46:55 · answer #2 · answered by La Tania W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in a real mess. Go out tomorrow and start looking for a job...tomorrow, not Monday. Get yourself out of that place ASAP, don't you have any friends of your own? perhaps they will let you crash on a couch for a few days. Rent a room and stay as far away from that creep as you can. Every rat has his day, and his is coming, count on it.
2007-03-24 22:23:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is luck! you just have to start thinking of yourself! bugger what what every1 else says its your life not theirs. You have built the courage to speak openly about this! so why not continue that strenght & proceed with your new chosen adventure! Life is all about what we make of it! So stay positive for your own sanity & things will start to make sense slowly! Give yourself time & lots of patients, but stay true to your own heart! Follow your dreams & aspirations, as they say "gut feelings" should always be noticed! All the very best!
2007-03-31 23:09:47 · answer #4 · answered by hot n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please compose yourself, put all your courage, and get out immediately from that house. Go to your parents I know they will not forsake you. Tell your parents to let you stay for a week or for days while you will be seeking job. Then if you find one, start anew, move on and I assure you a great life ahead is still waiting for you.
2007-03-30 01:07:08 · answer #5 · answered by kibbs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well not to be fanatical about your sorrows, but it is a good thing that your getting away from this oser and concentrating on yourself. If you were in Irealnd you could totally come stay with me, good luk in the future.
2007-03-31 06:09:56 · answer #6 · answered by kissaled 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back to mommy. Only a mother can love an illiterate, jobless, dumbass who can't spell, can't write and has absolutely no prospects. 21 years old? Shame on you.
2007-04-01 16:24:49 · answer #7 · answered by Mike G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have been out of the house 3 years ago-----why haven't you moved on your own--got a job and learned to be self sufficient--thats what life is all about my friend-- a J.O.B. !!!
2007-04-01 13:53:46 · answer #8 · answered by Billie R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find yourself a shelter, find a job, and leave this nasty situation.
2007-03-29 17:11:18 · answer #9 · answered by Joe d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋