Help with psycho, obsessed stalker! This is serious.?

Question

A guy took a business card from my desk and his wife found it in his wallet! The crazy B*tch now calls me everyday harrasing me. I have had a warrant issued for her and she still keeps doing it. What can I do? I have never said two words to her husband! After doing research on this case, I found all this out. This has been on going for two years and I have then since switched careers and she is calling my new job everyday just to see if I'm at work! She also has told every single person in my office that I had an affair with her husband! Mind you, I have never ever seen this guy outside of my old job!

My job gets tons of calls all day. There is no way to trace her. (She calls my cell phone from private numbers)! How did she find out all my info? Who Knows!!! This is an embarrasment especially knowing I have not done anything!

Answer 1

Sounds as if you have informed the police, and the courts, I think this is about all you can do. You have switched jobs, how the heck did she find you? You must live in a small town or she is very Screwed up in the head to do this for 2 years, watching your every move.
All I know is fight fire with fire.
If your job does not involve using the phones or customer support, then maybe have your calls screened or just have them say you no longer work there. Maybe your boss can come up with a solution, since it is interfering with the job.
Also park somewhere where she cannot see your vehicle for a few weeks to a month to go along with the not working there anymore thing, or get a ride, or borrow someone else's car? I don't know this is just crazy. Push the police to do something about it. Hopefully you have all kinds of information to use against her in court, like documentation of the calls etc....

Answer 2

If you have already put a restraining order on her, you should be reporting everytime she violates it. Hopefully the restraining order includes her not calling your home or place of business.

It also sounds like you have a great law suit on your hands. She is saying lies and spreading malicious slander. You can get a lawyer involved....

Your boss or company manager should also speak to her next time she calls and let her know that her calls are not welcomed, and if she continues your place of business will be looking at pressing charges, and encourage them to do so.

Can you change your cell number? The cell company maybe will give you a new number at no charge and not put a forwarding out there.

Answer 3

Start stalking her husband. Give him something to worry about. He brought this crap to your doorstep. Take it back to his. Tell the wife you had a affair every him he took a business trip. Leave sexy messages for him that you know she is going to hear. He will really have some explaining to do. Send him flowers at home when you know he is at work. Just think he lives with the psycho. Make his life a living hell, just like he has yours by flipping the script.

Answer 4

Make sure you carry protection... Call your local mental hospital & try to have her committed or make an anonomys report. Also, file a report against her top the FBI. Poster the wifes number everywhere to get calls. Send an anonomys flowers or singing telegram form a made a girl with dif name, put a phone add far far away from you so she can begin stalking a new target, :S

Answer 5

This is kind of an extreme option, but have the best-looking male friend of yours set up the woman by showing up when he's home and she's not and asking for her when he answers with flowers in hand. She'll be so confused and occupied by the new situation that you'll be forgotten. This has worked before, believe me.

Answer 6

call the police