I broke up with my boyfriend last night because he cheated on me for the 3rd time and a girl maybe pregnant with his baby. I am 24 and i am in love with him but it still hurts so bad. I dont want to be with him but i cant stop crying and thinking about it. can you please give me suggestions on how i can get over this break-up?
2007-03-24 14:47:35 · 6 answers · asked by Bee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you deserve so much better. keep telling yourself that. even if this baby-to-be is not his, he's not trustworthy. how much more of your life do you want to waste on someone who doesn't respect you the way you respect him? and while you're wasting this time, you are losing time on the search for mr. right.
kick his butt to the curb. good riddance to bad rubbish. cry your eyes out and have a pitty party for a day or two. yes, it's hard. it always is when someone breaks our hearts, but when you think about him, remind yourself of how much he's hurt you - again and again and again. day three is your fresh start. you deserve better.
2007-03-24 15:27:49 · answer #1 · answered by rainyday 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should break up with him and put it behind you. If you love him like that and he's cheating on you let him go to that girl and take care of HER baby beacuse obviously he doesnt love you the way you love him and that makes you seem so SPRUNG. So....forget about him. Okay all 3 of me and my cousins have somthing to say soo.....- Shay
Gurl, All you have to do is find you another man. Tell your so called BOYFRIEND that you dont want to be with him anymore if he's going to do you like that and you want to settle down and if he's not ready to be a man and do that, he need to STEP! This is how I feel.- Alex
FORGET HIM AND GET ANOTHER MAN! IF ITS NOT THAT EASY I KNOW SOMEONE WHO COULD HELP YOU. HER EMAIL IS peanut200482@yahoo.com
2007-03-24 22:06:43 · answer #2 · answered by Shay Shay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I understand that everyone makes mistakes, but noone deserves to be treated that way. 3 times is a little ridiculous, so please for your sake, get that @$$ outta your life. I'm not the best at dealing with break-ups, but I usually go out with my friends almost nightly for a few weeks to ease the pain and if possible go on a vacation with friends to just get away from the problems. Well hope this helps!
2007-03-24 21:58:45 · answer #3 · answered by DAVE122 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you don't want to hear this but. You should have dumped him after the 1st time. Tell yourself, I am better off without him. Count your Lucky stars you are not the one pregnant. Time will take care of this. Be patient.
2007-03-24 21:58:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seperate yourself from him completely. Remove anything physical, anything material that reminds you of him. I think you need to figure out, considering whats happened recently, whats good for you as an induvidual, versus this dying relationship.
2007-03-24 21:51:21 · answer #5 · answered by di12381 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will take time but you will move on.
2007-03-24 21:51:24 · answer #6 · answered by mlafferty04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋