Here it goes. I am a second semester freshman in college, and there is someone who's stalking me. What should I do? I need some tips on how to get rid of him. Heeeelp!
2007-03-24 14:28:09 · 12 answers · asked by princesstocrown 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Go outside and punch him in the face....lol sorry just joking
2007-03-25 03:49:25 · answer #1 · answered by hector6man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1Practice empathy. Broken friendships often occur because of misunderstandings. Your friend's behavior was likely because of the problems in her life and not a wish to hurt or use you. Step 2Write him a letter about what you're feeling. Let your anger go but explain to him why you feel wronged. Writing helps you get your thoughts in order. Step 3Mark a date on your calendar when you'll approach your friend. Prepare for it the day before with meditation, physical exercise, aromatherapy or whatever relieves your stress. Step 4Stay calm when patching up a broken friendship, no matter what happens. Anger clouds your vision and inhibits communication. Step 5Forget your pride and apologize, even if you've been wronged. She may not even realize she treated you badly. Or if she does, she may have been scared to make the first move. Step 6Relive good memories together. Nothing mends a broken friendship better than shared positivity. Remind each other why you've stayed friends for so long. Step 7Accept that not every broken friendship can go back to the way it was. You've both grown during your time apart. But it's worth maintaining good friendships even if they're not as close as before.
2016-03-29 03:02:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Inform college security, then file a report at police station. Stalking is a serious matter, especially these days.
2007-03-24 14:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the police and file a report, get a restraining order asap. Make sure you arenever alone you read too many newspaper accounts on people stalking and hurting and even killing the person they are stalking. this is serious and you need to report it right away before you get hurt or worse
2007-03-24 14:31:59 · answer #4 · answered by bbinqueens33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police talk to the people in charge of the college
2007-03-24 14:32:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your college administration and the college security. Ask for mediation with a college official and the stalker to make it clear that you're uncomforatble with his behavior and that this has been officially noted.
Don't try to take care of it yourself. It's likely that he'll be encouraged by your attention to him.
2007-03-24 14:33:49 · answer #6 · answered by Biff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the cops and get some mace!!! Try not to walk alone at night and always let someone know where you are going!!! Stalkers can get serious quick!!
2007-03-24 15:43:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let as many people as possible know who is stalking you. Sooner or later somebody will ask him why he is stalking you.
2007-03-24 14:51:05 · answer #8 · answered by njal47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do NOT get rid of him / confront him yourself. You report the incidents to campus security and / or the cops.
2007-03-24 14:32:53 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hun the first thing you need to do right away is contact campus police/local police let them know they'll at least confront him about his ways and then if it occurs again press charges
2007-03-24 14:32:57 · answer #10 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋