theres this girl and we've been best friends for about a year. all of a sudden she stopped liking me. she wudnt hang out with me and she doesnt call as much. we used to be really close. wat can i do to save our friendship?? i really want to be friends but wen she has parties she doesnt invite me. i really miss calling her and just hanging out. so the question is
what can i do to save our relationship and is it because she's bored with me?
2007-03-24 14:04:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she stopped hanging out and calling last summer. we havnt been in any fights lately. and now she hangs out with a differnt kind of people. for about a month now i tried to not call her everysingle day like we used to. its hard. its like im addicted. that may sound weird but its true. i now no how she feels wen someone u dont like calls u everday and u get annoyed. so i stopped calling her. and she only calls me once a week? but most of the time its for homework help or something. sometimes she'll just wanna talk but thats rare. and she didnt get me a birthday present. i invited her to my party and i gave her a present wen she didnt have a bday party. maybe she forgot?
2007-03-24 14:17:37 · update #1
Let her have her space. If she is a REAL friend she will come back around. Don't try to force it. Real friendship does not work that way.
2007-03-24 14:07:56 · answer #1 · answered by cadburyminieggsrgood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know what her problem is, but if someone doesnt want to be bothered with you and they are shutting you off..then why would you even want to have anything to do with them? It just like any other relationship...its gone bad (for whatever reason) so move on. There are plenty of friends out there. I know how you feel, ive been through this before.
2007-03-24 21:08:50 · answer #2 · answered by BE HAPPY! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um well try talking to that girl. She may feel the same exact way. You never know.And maybe she is tired of calling you and you may want to call her. Give her some space for a week then talk to her. Good Luck!
2007-03-24 21:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you still want to be friends and ask her why she's being such a bi*** lately thats just being rude of her to stop talking to you if your best friends i mean its understandable if you two got into a major fight but she has no reason to treat you badly because you seem like a really nice person... good luck
2007-03-24 21:08:59 · answer #4 · answered by jc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to her and tell her how you feel. Ask her why you guys don't hang out so much anymore. I think that might help you a lot.
2007-03-24 21:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by Amber Lorraine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sure shes not bored w/ you but if you care for her you need to tell her 1st. She needs you to communicate w./ her . Maybe she thinks you don;t care for her. Start there
2007-03-24 21:11:32 · answer #6 · answered by remi m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all u do is ask hur whats up wit hur n find out
2007-03-24 21:10:25 · answer #7 · answered by Tavoris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋