My friend can get pushy at little things and have no respect over what I do in my life. I have a birthday coming up and I'm wondering if there will be a catfight if I don't invite her. Should I or shouldn't I invite her? And, shoud we still be friends?
2007-03-24 14:04:19 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
first, talk it out with her, have you ever try that? well if you didn't then try it. And if she still acting like this than forget it but first you have to wait for a period of times, I mean if you guys are pretty close then it might take a while for her to change but if she just like whatever about it than screw it. who wants a friend like that? It's all up to you, if you still think she's your friend and you still have hope in her, than invite her but if you have nothing to say then screw it don't invite her.
2007-03-24 14:14:48 · answer #1 · answered by teheheitsanna :] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend like that. She was very pushy and only concern with her own opinions -- she completely disregarded mine. Recently, I knew two girls that were like that. I took a while to catch on, but eventually I saw that they were all about themselves.
Am I still friends with them? No way Why? Because friends are suppose to enjoy being around each other and our suppose to communicate at a certain level -- the girls I'm referring to were in there own little "click", and I felt in the dark, so I've ended all contact with them.
However, keep in mind that our situations are different -- your friend may not be all that bad, she's probably just alittle bossy and needs to be told off. If you don't even want to invite her to your birthday party, then there's something wrong with your friendship.
Try talking to her and letting her know how you feel. If she really wants to be your friend then she will take your conversation seriously. If she doesn't then you know what to do :)
Hope this helps!
2007-03-24 14:13:56 · answer #2 · answered by rosie768 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
When our "friends" continually give us a bad feeling, there is something wrong. We hang out with certain people because they are genuine, caring...they like/love us. If they are constantly saying or doing hurtful things, well, it is time to say "Goodbye". There are "bad" people in this world (as much as I dislike saying that!) perhaps they are just immature, who knows? We do have to be on the lookout for people who are jealous or just mean spirited. Keep your distance!! Be kind, BUT FIRM, and tell her that you need some space from your friendship. She will probably know why...really. Don't let her wiggle her way back in. Space is good in relationships. It gives a person time to 'get over' the wrong kind of attachments...to the wrong kinds of people!!
Trust your feelings...trust that 'little voice' that says, "This is not good, etc." I wish you the best! P.S. If there is even a remote possibility of a "cat fight" this is not a friendship!!!
2007-03-24 14:25:45 · answer #3 · answered by Eve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you should atleast try to invite her but when she gets "pushy" then tell her to "slow down". I think that just judge her on your birthday and if she is good then I would continue on if she isnt then just a little wave or a smile or a little nice hi from now on will work. Hope everything goes well.Good Luck!
2007-03-24 14:10:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do first is talk to her. Tell her how you feel. If she still doesn't respect you then she's not really your friend. As for the birthday, invite her. She's still your friend.
2007-03-24 14:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by chocolategirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to go were the sun doesnt shine. you do not need to take any bullshit from no one.Go to her face and tell her ,How you feel.
2007-03-24 14:11:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch her,she is no friend.
2007-03-24 14:07:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋