Ok....Me and my husband have been married for almost 7 years, last year he started talking to his ex-girlfriend/ex-fiance. He invited her to the bar after he was done work to hang out with him and the guys from his work...well I found out that one time last year him and her started to talk about their past and he had told her he loved her and she asked him why he married me and his mind was blank :(. Then he defends her like there is something to protect. And I dont understand why he still feels this way when she treated him so badly when they were together. She also had treated me badly in the past and present and he dont stand up to me when she does so. What should I do? I found out only cause I got into his email and found out he was hangin with her for 5 months and wasnt going to tell me. Then I had asked him to choose either me and our 2 daughter or Her and he couldnt decide. What should I do? Would it be bad if I left him?
2007-03-24 13:59:13 · 6 answers · asked by rachael m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he can not choose between you and your two daughters, he is not worth your time-- or your kids time! By doing this, he is bringing down your life and their lives with him. He is showing them that family means nothing-- and he is also showing them how to be greedy. He only cares about himself and what HE wants. Let him go, and find someone better for you and your kids!
2007-03-24 14:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What in the world?? He has a wife and two daughters and he doesn't want to commit to having a family? He wants to go back to that old ex where he didn't have commitments of any kind, no responsibilities, and she can make him feel like a kid again. Just hanging out in a bar and having sex?
You are the mother of two children. The days of no commitments are over. If your husband does not want to grow up and be responsible for a wife and two children, then you must do the honorable thing by your children. Leave his sorry butt. But... be prepared. In six months he will come crawling back and will be sooooooo sorry!!! Please, he will say, give me another chance, and blah, blah, blah. Then you must remember that he could not choose the mother of his children over some skank.... so he chose the skank.
2007-03-24 14:10:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your are his wife not her. You have told him this hurts you and he should stop seeing her just because he loves you and your his wife. If he does not then their something wrong with the way he feels about you. You two need to talk for a long time and see what each other are feeling.
2007-03-24 14:04:33 · answer #3 · answered by heidi t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to stay with a man seeing another woman and he wont choose his daughter or you well by by to him but you have to deside whats best for you and your daughter you want to put up with this ?so be it it,s your life . for me what i do hit the door jack and by by to him .my kids has all ways come first be for me . good luck to ya
2007-03-24 14:11:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it would hurt the kids most probably, but for your sake i would say leave, if you can't work this out
2007-03-24 14:08:27 · answer #5 · answered by myddad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be smart to leave him.
2007-03-24 14:02:47 · answer #6 · answered by MARE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋