should i stop chatting.....what u think
thanks!!
2007-03-24 13:55:50 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
depends on what ur talking about. life in general is ok but once you cross that line you need to stop. =)
2007-03-24 13:58:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There should be no reason that you can't chat with the opposite sex while being married. Your husband should have 100% trust in you that you are not going to do anything you shouldnt with these people. If your husband is the jealous type then he may have a hard time letting you do this. But to say that you can not chat at all with other males would make your life very difficult :p
2007-03-24 21:02:40 · answer #2 · answered by Zach S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on why your chatting with them, are they strangers and are you looking for an affair? If that's why then YES its wrong, does your husband know your chatting to them or do you hide them? If your just looking to pass the time and looking for a friend on line why not Girls. You may want to go off line and chat with your husband instead....Start by saying one simple thing...."I RESPECT You" watch what happens you'll love it, but you have to mean it and be sincere...
2007-03-24 21:04:30 · answer #3 · answered by K F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No chatting is not wrong as long as you dont take it beyond that . Chatting with others men or female is normal for those who are married and its keeps you socially happy cause you arent stuck to only talking too those your spouse deems fit
2007-03-24 20:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by Amazing_clarity 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chatting is not wrong by itself. It's what is being said that can be wrong. If you just have a friend and you talk about friendly topics then it is safe. If you two start getting more intimate then that is where it goes wrong. My wife has her friends and I have mine. I trust her enough to do what is right and she trusts me also.
2007-03-24 21:46:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on the situation if you are just chatting with men that are frinds or are you looking for more? are you telling them the truth or do you tell them ur single? does your husband no about it? theres alot of ways that can play out be careful. but harmless chatting with the other sex aint wrong if its harmless
2007-03-24 21:21:30 · answer #6 · answered by bjjensen25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding? No way! 50% of the world's population [or maybe more] are male. It's inevitable that you'll be surrounded by them and it's not wrong to have male friends or anything. If your husband is really protective and obsessive..then maybe have a talk with him
2007-03-24 21:00:33 · answer #7 · answered by cec~ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your husband knows about it and doesn't care, then not a problem. But if doesn't, then it's wrong because you are hiding it. What if he was chatting with girls and you didn't know about it - what would you think about it?
2007-03-24 22:31:59 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it depends what your chatting about? also would your husband be mad if he found out? if so i would stop. if not i dont see the harm...as long as your not flirting or tryin to get with people you should be good...especially if they know your married and happy
2007-03-24 21:00:16 · answer #9 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both my husband and I chat online to the opposite sex. I suppose we trust eachother that it won't go any further. I think you should only give it up if it makes him unhappy or uncomfortable.
2007-03-24 21:03:45 · answer #10 · answered by Miami Lilly 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋