We had been married for 20 yrs with 3 kids. My wife 45 and always asking me divorce and separation and always ask me to leave the house. And after sometimes she comes to me and we love like a hell??? She is making me crazy…driving me nuts…please help me because this has been going since 15 years.
2007-03-24 13:42:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If it was me I would call her bluff. Next time she said that to me, I would take off and drive to the next town and get a hotel for the weekend. Give her a week, she will have some time to think this out. Guaranteed she will either sh#i or get off the pot.. You cannot let this keep going like that. Stress causes heart attacks, and you don't need that...
2007-03-24 13:49:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have your bags packed and the next time she brings it up, walk out the door. Give it a week. Then return and ask her if she's satisfied or does she want to play with your head some more.
2007-03-24 13:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a lawyer and see what will happen to you if you get divorced. If she keeps nagging for it, and you haven't been beating her or cheating on her, hopefully you won't have to pay her anything, and maybe she can pay you. Then you can find a nice little pad to live in, meet a young girl or two, and get remarried and have a nice fresh outlook on life.
2007-03-24 13:48:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk too her about it , maybe she gets some sort of rush from telling you too get out, and it gets her off. You need to ask her what is it about her doing that drives her wild this way you can know its about the high its gives her sexual drive and not just her really wanting that .
2007-03-24 13:48:59 · answer #4 · answered by Amazing_clarity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is getting a power trip by asking you for a divorce, etc. Next time tell her to leave.
2007-03-24 13:52:46 · answer #5 · answered by aunt Bea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time just leave and don't return for a few weeks without calling her.
2007-03-24 13:47:02 · answer #6 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your wife just wants romantic attention from you and this is the only way she knows how to get it. Get it?
2007-03-24 13:51:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply said, seek couples counseling if you wish to save this relationship.
2007-03-24 13:46:39 · answer #8 · answered by SDTerp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away from this situation and give her what she wants.
2007-03-25 17:25:52 · answer #9 · answered by Miz Val 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋