i am interested in being with a woman. if have fantazied about it for years. i am married and my husband doesnt mind. are there any woman that have felt this way or have done anything about it?
2007-03-24 13:36:06 · 6 answers · asked by crabybuttcute 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That can be a really powerful fantasy and a lot of fun (for both of you) to fulfill. Of course your husband doesn't mind! It's just as much of a fantasy for him as it is for you.
Of course, if there weren't a downside to it, it probably wouldn't be as exciting. If you act on it, you could be opening Pandora's Box. The after effects could possibly (ultimately) destroy your relationship and marriage. It can be done without permanent damage but it is a very risky thing to act on when you are married.
My suggestion is simply to treat your lustful desires to be with another woman the same way you would expect your husband to treat "his" lustful desires to be with another woman.
I think I've made my point.
2007-03-24 14:07:20 · answer #1 · answered by Leroy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I've fantasized about it and I'm 52 and I feel to be very attractive in alot of ways but I've never done it. Don't know if I ever will either because hey, who knows, I just may like it. LOL
2007-03-24 21:02:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with fantasizing, but you may want to consider the complications that could follow. Sometimes it is best to leave fantasies where they belong...in your mind.
2007-03-24 20:46:51 · answer #3 · answered by sandibum 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you wanted to be a lesbian you shouldn't have got married to a man. I hear you can marry girls in like Michigan or something. look into it.
PS, when you love someone for real, you don't want to share them with ANYONE.
2007-03-24 20:43:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Check out adult friend finder.
2007-03-24 20:48:37 · answer #5 · answered by franksprung 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you can share her threesome, he can get stuck in while you lick her ears.
2007-03-24 21:19:36 · answer #6 · answered by Mr T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋