okay well i dont know how to say this but for some reason when somebody tells me im okay with it even with a transgender person i found out that he really was a she and i havent told anyone and i wont y am i like this am i open minded or could it be osmething else that all this things are okay with me help?
2007-03-24 13:26:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
let me rephrase my question im okay with bi gay and lesbians im okay with transgenders i dont have a problem withthem i dont go ugh when i see a transgender why am i okay with it my mom has always been closed minded what made me open minded or is it that im open minded or is it something else? am i cool for being this way?
2007-03-24 13:38:57 · update #1
Your not bi unless you are attracted to men and women. Being "open-minded" about others preferances or personal decisions being made by others just makes you open mind and non-judgemental and someone who sees the person not all this extra sociolly acceptable or not garbage.
2007-03-24 13:30:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't sound like your bi or lesbian based on your question. It is absolutely great that you are open minded. You are open minded no one made you that way As an open minded guy, I love chatting with open minded women. Send me an email if you wish
2007-03-24 14:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by Pink 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, but it does help you to be a very wise and curious youngla
dy who wont allow herself to move oneway or another too qui
ck. without thinking things through? you may think that you wa
nt to be a lesbian, before you make that decision, do all of th
e home work and studies. to help you make sound and wise c
hoices about you and your life. please dont walk into that situa
tion in the dark, or not knowing what will be required of you? d
o all of the research that you can do, so that you will know as much as you can know on the subject of lesbianism?
2007-03-24 13:48:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, you hit the nail on the head when you said "I don't know how to say this." What the heck are you asking? Are you asking if not having a problem with lesbians, gays, and transgendered people makes you lesgian, gay, or transgendered? Cripes, I hope that's not what you're asking, because, duh. All that would mean is that you're a cool person--it says nothing about your own sexual orientation.
2007-03-24 13:31:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Listen, lots of straight people are open minded... Like, I know 4 friends, when 3 are straight and 1 is gay... and, I mean, the straight are OK with it and they are still VERY straight... so, either you are open or closed minded, it doesn't change your sexual orientation.
2007-03-24 14:00:19 · answer #5 · answered by Jack D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u open your mind that is one thing but if you open your legs that is another. Then there is opening your mouth. This is another thing but similar to being open minded without the other stuff.
I'm open minded so you are cool but to a cosed minded person that thinks their opinions should rule the world you might be not cool.
2007-03-24 13:40:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are totally cool for thinking like that...you just have a wonderful open mind...and you already know that
people are people regardless of their sexual orientation...
race or beliefs.
youi are not bi or lesbian..because you would be attracted to another woman if you were.
2007-03-24 13:45:22 · answer #7 · answered by manhattanmaryanne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that is awesome that you are interested in a transgendered person and that you are not concerned about their past biological situation.
sexual orientation tends to describe attraction to gender (not necessarily biological sex)
in this case, since you are attracted to a transman, even though he used to be a she, well, in your eyes and mind, you are dating a man, so you can consider yourself straight.
if you find yourself also attracted to biological women or transwomen (M2F) then you could be considered bi.
if you have no interest in men, or transsexuals who are presenting or appearing as men, then you could considered lesbian.
2007-03-24 13:37:03 · answer #8 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. Open minded is open minded. You're not bi unless you enjoy those activities. And you're not les unless you've sworn off men.
2007-03-24 13:40:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being open minded like that can make you an ally if you want to be. If you're open to being intimate with people regardless of their sex or gender, then you're bisexual or pansexual.
2007-03-24 18:28:00 · answer #10 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋