recently i lost a friend i had a dream of him and i looked at his face and it seem as he was not resting in peace his face was just looking at me without a word it really scared me but i was happy to see him again in my dreams.
2007-03-24 13:25:35 · 20 answers · asked by Merari M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Edgar Cacye, a renown psychic, believed that the dead communicate with us in our sleep. I've had very vivid dreams of friends that have died and the funny thing about them is that each one of my friends have told me not to worry or grieve because they are always with me.
I'm not an expert on the subject or anything, but your friend may be trying to come to terms with his own death, especially if it was unexpected and sudden.
I think it was a very special gift your friend gave you by visiting you in a dream. He must have cared about you.
2007-03-24 13:33:54 · answer #1 · answered by Counselor 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm sorry for your loss. It is natural to have dreams such as you had. It's hard to get a concept of death. We have been told so many things about the afterlife. Some people believe in Heaven and Hell, while others believe there is only a heaven and no hell. Some believe we are like a dog when we die, ''just like Rover we're dead all over.'' There are so many beliefs that for me or anyone else here to tell you how to believe it would be stepping out of line. But I can help you with your grief.
When my grandmother died I wrote her a long letter. I wrote about how mad I was that she left me, how sad I was that she was gone, how afraid I was without her here to help me with life's problems and a number of other things. I wrote and wrote and wrote till I had many pages written. It felt wonderful to get all that off my mind. Then, I took my letter outside to my driveway and ... burned it! Two things happens when you do this. First, if you wrote anything you didn't want others to read they couldn't. Second, it gave me a peacful feeling like the letter was carried by the smoke and wind to my grandmother.
Now you may think this sounds like something silly to do but I promise you that it WILL help you feel better and it WILL help you cope with your loss. How do I know? Because I have given this advice to many people over the years and everyone said, ''That letter thing helped. Thanks.'' Try it. And I hope you feel better soon.
2007-03-24 13:38:02 · answer #2 · answered by Average Joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"...it's appointed for a man once to die and then the judgment..." Sorry to be a wet blanket, but your friend is gone. He's made his choices and now cannot make any more. I don't know if your friend is at peace or not. You, on the other hand, still have a lifetime of choices to make - among them, "where will I spend forever?" Take the clue from your dream and get YOUR life right. Be ready to go so that you know you will Rest in Peace.
2007-03-24 13:34:00 · answer #3 · answered by onparadisebeach 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry about the lose of your friend. Losing people is never easy. This is a hard one, you do not know that he is not resting in peace. Pray about it and see what God reveals. Try and find out if there were things that he did not accomplish that you might be able to bring to fruition for him. Also look at your own life and think about what he might have wanted you to complete or get done or stop doing and get to work on it.
2007-03-24 13:30:58 · answer #4 · answered by Shay 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you miss your friend. some people tend to go through this phase where they see their friends who have passed on. sometimes in their dreams, other times in public, but there not really there. it's only because you still haven't quite gotten over the shock of your loss. it's not depression and you don't sound like you need help. if you are a religous person then you believe your friend has gone to a better place, if you are a friend you believe they have gone to a great place. im sure your friend is just fine. sorry for your loss. xxxxx
2007-03-24 13:33:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about your loss. My prayers go out to you. But the truth is your friend is probably in heaven having the time of there life! Second, sure your probably gonna have somedays were u just want to sit in your room/bed and dream, but the truth is it is better to face reality. There is nothing u can do and I am SURE your friend is really Resting in peace. All you have to do is believe.
2007-03-24 13:29:57 · answer #6 · answered by Twinkle_twinkle_star 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i am very sorry to here that your friend died i have also lost many people close to me in my life but i personally believe in heaven and hell and i know that they are now in heaven what you have to do is determine if your friend was a christian. in heaven you live forever and life is perfect u have all u need, however in hell u simply cease to exist, you are no more, im no theologen but i belive that if our friend visited you in a dream that he still exists, somewhere,wherever heaven is i believe that he may very well be "sitting in the clouds"
2007-03-24 14:06:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a dream. Nothing more, nothing less. You miss him. Thats understandable. Sorry for your loss.
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2007-03-24 13:29:23 · answer #8 · answered by The Syko Ward 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is resting in peace. I am sorry about your loss.
2007-03-24 13:29:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-20 09:40:03 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋