same race or not and why?
2007-03-24 13:20:58 · 13 answers · asked by tess 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Race really isn't the issue. It can be if you make it.
The ideal spouse is the one that supports you, makes you want to be the best you can be, and the person that even when you feel like crap and look worse, still manages to say I love you in the morning for the rest of their days.
You build a great relationship on finding the person that accepts you the way you are...and you love the way they are without changing them
Race is not a factor.
2007-03-24 13:24:56 · answer #1 · answered by kishoti 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is a very tricky subject.It depends on the two subjects.Separate race's is OK if it is accepted by immediate family(not to say you couldn't be very happy divorcing your family if need be)however if family members have a problem with it, and it is a constant distraction to one or both of you this could cause major problems.The best advice I can give is go slow make sure you really trust each other, be financially responsible,feel like this is your best friend,enjoy each others company,and the biggest thing search your soul and decide if you are ready to spend the rest of your life with this person.When it comes down to these things race isn't even counted.If you have any doubts your not ready.You will definitely know when the time is right.
2007-03-24 13:52:02 · answer #2 · answered by pete63daddy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends. It's not necessarily the "race" as the other partner. It has to do with the shared values and culture. If you're white and your man is black it can work out great if you have the same goals and are compatible. Sometimes I will see couples where the man is Hispanic and the woman is white and there is huge cultural differences. It just depends.
2007-03-24 13:24:34 · answer #3 · answered by Brown-eyed girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who care if he's African American, White, Asian, Indian, Chinese, and so on.
It doesn't matter about the outside, it goes for the inside.
What if like, you want somebody that is white, and you spend the rest of your life finding that white person, and you gave up, and that person is Asian, you will feel really feel bad about yourself. So, give it time to find that person, no matter what color he is. If you already found that person, give him a chance, If you know if he's the right guy, then you've found him.
I hoped I helped you out
Good Luck!
2007-03-24 13:32:53 · answer #4 · answered by TempoBronze124 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The perfect spouse is the one person that you can annoy the heck out of for the rest of your life and you know they won't leave you because of it.
Race doesn't matter!!
2007-03-24 13:23:34 · answer #5 · answered by cmssko 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Who cares? Why do people always have to bring race into it?
2007-03-24 13:22:57 · answer #6 · answered by Always Right 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i dont care about race.. as long as there honest loyal funny layed back and down to earth!
2007-03-24 13:25:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
ive already got one, but colour or race is not important to me. as long as she is honest an true!
2007-03-24 13:24:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It does not matter your heart will let you know when you find the right soul mate for you.
2007-03-24 13:26:06 · answer #9 · answered by carpathian3030 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't matter. Honesty and a similar sense of humor are what matters most.
2007-03-24 13:23:26 · answer #10 · answered by Knitter Jackson 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋