What to do?

Question

My wife always complain. She is short tempered. She does not respect my parents and me. She is more close to her mom than mine. She annoys me a lot. I have talked to her a lot about this..but it does not work..what shuld I do?

Answer 1

ACCEPT WHO SHE IS OR LEAVE,BECAUSE YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HER!!

Answer 2

Sit down with your wife and talk to her about this and how you are feeling... Be open and honest with her and tell her everything and all of the truth... Ask her if she is open to marriage counseling with you. She could also benefit from anger management classes or something like that. Why does she not respect you or your parents? She needs help and you need to try to get her to the help that she needs. Good luck:)

Answer 3

You and her needs to go to counseling, obvioiusly you arent happy in your relationship, if she doesnt want to work on the marriage that should speak volumes too you , and you need to end it. Being in an unhappy relationshp is too stressful. If both of you arent willing too work on the marriage it will never regain the happier times

Answer 4

Try writing letters to her and tell her how u feel...don't critize, only say your feelings like...It bothers me when...but always puts something nice at the end like...I hope we can work this out together becuase I really do love u.
Afterwards wait to see her reaction. If she is too hostile, ask her gently to write her feelings on paper and to give it to u later. Writing is good therapy.

Answer 5

Ahh...maybe counseling? If that doesn't work or if she refuses the suggestion of counseling, maybe you should consider a divorce if she is making you this unhappy. Good luck.

Answer 6

Her complaints may be a frustration with another marital issue (i.e. finance, sex, infidelity). Make sure all of these things are in order and seek counseling.