I been married for almost a year and my husband just got home from a 7 month deployment and its only been 20 days since he has been home and in that short time he found us a beautiful home, Jumped in to help with house work and always makin sure that he is there for me. I want to find the best way to thank him.
2007-03-24 13:00:39 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well that's pretty easy.
1. Start of going out to dinner and wear the prettiest thing in ur closet.
2. when u get there act romantic & listen to him while he talks
3. After dinner take him on a walk. Stop and tell him u miss him and thank him for everything he's done.
4. Tell him u love him and u will never leave him no matter what!
5. Take him home. Slip into something more comfortable and wait for sparks to fly
Remember the night will stay young if u act young!
2007-03-24 13:05:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I were married six months ago and three weeks ago he died very suddenly. I had nothing when we married. He built me a beautiful home and treated me like a Queen. Every day I told him how much I loved and appreciated him. I treated him always with kindness and respect. When we had disagreements there was no demeaning one other, no yelling or fighting. We sat down and communicated with one anotherand worked daily on our issues. Before he died he told me that I had treated him like a King and that everyday he spent with me was a joy. So, treat him the way you want to be treated, love him the way you want to be loved and tell him that you do not take his goodness and kindness for granted.
May you have heaven in your home and when you don't, communicate without demeaning one another. Be grateful for every moment you have with him . Life has taught me that it can end in a matter of seconds or minutes and your life is changed forever.
Best wishes for a long and happy marriage.
2007-03-24 20:28:15 · answer #2 · answered by Raina R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women go for all that mushy stuff provided in earlier questions, men don't really. I'm sure you know that. I would cook him his favorite meal or take him to his favorite restaurant or bar. Men love food. If he drinks, get him a couple just to loosen him up. Then take him home and tell him exactly what you said to us. Look him straight in the eyes when you say it. He will probably hug you and tell you that he loves you. As he is saying this, remove his pant and make his little soldier salute until it dies. After this, feed him some more of his favorite drinks while you rub his feet. Once his "batteries" are recharged rock his world in bed! That would make any man know he is appreciated :-)
2007-03-24 20:18:12 · answer #3 · answered by wishywashy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him Thank You! Let him know how you you feel. Get out the oil and give him a massage, make him a fabulous dinner in your great new kitchen. If you have the money plan a special get-a-way for the two of you based around his interests. But most of all, show your love with the little things in life. Flirt with him, leave love notes in his pockets, or sweet I love you's on the bathroom mirror (he'll see it when he gets out of the shower)
2007-03-24 20:16:35 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Butler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a that special treat married men only get on their birthdays...or when he comes from work have a yummy dinner you cooked with love.set the table with nice candle light. rose petals on the floor.(Have the house nice and clean and the kids put to bed if you have any or with a babysitter) OR you can have the tub filled and ready for a nice bath together,remember to put some candles in there too. Also put rose petals on your bed and write his name out with them( white linen) scented Vanilla candles. Have soft music playing.After dinner offer a nice Massage with oil(Buy some)Also have some Champagne(doesn't have to be expensive)It's the tought that counts.That would be so romantic! He's gonna love it..For the best results Put all the things I wrote together.Have fun!
2007-03-24 20:10:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are very simple. Women like all the mushy romantic stuff like someone else already said, but men are much easier to please. Cook him his favorite meal; keep his beers coming while he watches football or enjoys his favorite hobby undisturbed (he sounds like he deserves it); make it a point to look and dress nicely for him so he has something "cute" to look at without leaving home. NEVER, EVER demean or disrespect him when you argue or disagree. Also, if it hasn't become painfully obvious to you yet...men love bj's! Regularly scheduled bj's will go a long way towards keeping him motivated to continue treating you like the queen you are and doing all those nice things for you. Trust me on that one-lol.
Okay, one more thing...never forget that men have emotions too Make it a point to know what he is thinking or feeling about your life together, your relationship and just everyday stuff. Let him know that it is your desire to please him in every reasonable way. Go out on dates, stay in shape and remain active together. Those things will help determine if your marriage is still so strong and happy in 10 years.
I wish you and your family the best!
2007-03-24 22:06:02 · answer #6 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think his the best husband so to thank a best husband give him a best kiss and go out some where for dinner. Try to give him more love and try to be with him as much time as much u can. I don't have any expereince but I think if I would be at ur place i would do that. !Hope This Helps!
2007-03-24 20:07:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Blessings on you both. Guys are a lot more basic than us girls. Don't bother to be subtle. Just hug him and kiss him... a lot! Fix him a great romantic meal at least once a week and tell him how much you love him and appreciate his attention to your needs...especially after what he has been through. Make sure he knows you support him in his military duties. That will be all the thanks he needs.
2007-03-24 20:09:51 · answer #8 · answered by kathy_is_a_nurse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue loving him as much as you obviously do!
Be supportive and faithful to him. Always work with him. Never go to sleep on an argument. Congratulations and may you both have many happy years ahead of you!
One more thing-Thanks to your husband for his service!
2007-03-24 20:09:12 · answer #9 · answered by Chris S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just the fact that you waited loyally and faithfully is thanks enough. In fact, he's thanking YOU right now for giving HIM the "best life he could have ever thought of having". You have a lifetime of dishing out the daily lovins'. Tell him what you told us and keep giving him your best every day that you can for as many years as life allows. I suspect that your love for him is going to manifest itself in daily actions that let him know just that.
2007-03-24 20:11:22 · answer #10 · answered by HappyAlaskan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋