Will someone help me?

Question

My mom had a stroke and now she has a brain disease. I dont no wat to do.She has 2 have brain sergery for the 2nd time and I have 2 stay at my grannys 4 2 weeks i love it at her house but... my mom might die. what am i gonna do? HELP ME!
Nina

Answer 1

I really feel for you. Tell granny that you are frightened. She loves you and will comfort you. You cannot stay at your house on your own, you are too upset. I hope it all goes well with your mom. x

Answer 2

It's unfair that, at such an early age, you have to face life-and-death problems like those of your mother. You still have hope. The very fact that they are operating on your mother for the second time must mean they believe that such an operation can help. That means the surgeon is already familiar with the area of her brain that has been affected and, based on this knowledge, is not giving up hope.

But, of course, you know that your mother is very ill and that she may not make it. That would worry anybody. This will be uncharted territory for you. The way ahead isn't clear right now. Your mother is your guide as you mature and learn from your experiences. I'm sure your granny will be available to give you some guidance. But she's worried just as you are. You may be able to give each other the comfort you both need during this critical time. Maybe you could connect with her now and help each other through all this.

You both will need all the strength you can muster. But over time, whatever happens, you should know that you can look back on this as a time that you had to grow up faster than most people.

Answer 3

oh my dear, you have to be strong for your mommy. You know how much she loves you.

She has placed you in the best home she can while she goes through her surgery. I know it is not your own bed but I am sure your Granny is worried about your Mom too. Your being there with her will bring her comfort. You are lucky to have a Grandmother to stay with! Talk to her about how you feel. I imagine she feels the same way and talking will help you both feel better. Talk to your best friend too if you can.

All you can do for your mother is be the obviously strong loving daughter she raised. Sometimes God sends us very difficult challenges and we don't know why. Visit your friends and try to live as normal a life as you can. Keep up with your schooling and give her a little space to heal knowing her darling daughter is safe with her Mom for a little while. All you can do is visit her and say your prayers for her.

Honey, in this case, that is all you can do. I will say some prayers for you and your Mom.

Answer 4

Try to stay positive. The best thing you can do for your mom is be supportive. It's normal to worry - brain surgery is major - but try not to let the worry consume you. You should talk to your granny about it too - maybe she can give you some reassurance.

Answer 5

I'm so very, very sorry Nina. All of this must be so difficult for you. All I can tell you is to think good thoughts for your mom and hang in there. Your mom would want you to continue to work hard in school, go out with your friends, and take care of yourself. The best thing you can do for her is to be ok and to know she loves you with all her heart.

Answer 6

i feel ya hun, hang in there keep your spirits up, keep busy so that it's not the only thing on your mind, talk to the ppl that care about you and they will help you through it, be supportive and be postive. best of luck to you

Answer 7

first, you need to calm down. and second, you need to pray for your mother. you also need to appreciate that yourgrandmother will house you while this is happening.