In the past 5 yrs, there have probably been about 10. She is always very honest about it (after the fact, not before she starts trying to find them). She claims she just wants to see how they are doing, but it makes me totally insecure. I have no desire to hunt down all my exes. Is it a girl thing? Is it curiousity or is she wondering what might have been?
2007-03-24 12:28:59 · 12 answers · asked by wondering 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
probally thinks hes not changed but people change over the years he may be bald now or diffrent Ive wondered some about an old boyfriend but i was 17 when we broke up I'm 58 now i know hes changed i have
2007-03-24 12:36:47 · answer #1 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's immaturity. I'm sure the ex bf's are glad they didn't marry her if she's hunting down other men like this- not a very loyal wife. I guess she skipped the vow "forsaking all others." I personally have no interested in any former bf, and I wouldn't want to humiliate myself as a married woman by tracking them down.
2007-03-24 19:34:27 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not a girl thing - sounds like she is yearning for "what might have been" - I'd tell her she needs to make a decision - either live in the present with you, or live in the past without you.
2007-03-24 19:40:06 · answer #3 · answered by Zabes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A married woman has no business contacting ex boyfriends. You should be concerned that she's concerned about them. Tell her if she does this again, you will tell the ex's they can have her.
2007-03-24 19:34:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no this is definitely NOT a girl thing.
I would let her know how it makes you feel and ask her to stop.
be honest with her about it
see what she has to say and go from there
does not seem right to me
be cool...
2007-03-24 19:34:25 · answer #5 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a girl thing. She just wants to keep her foot in their doors. It doesn't sound good for you.
2007-03-24 19:49:19 · answer #6 · answered by Pamela 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would NEVER do that to my husband because I would feel like crap if he did that to me...... maybe your wife needs to know how it makes you feel for SURE..... 2 wrongs don't make it right.. so I am not saying for you to do it to her... just kinda make her think it could happen and ask her how she would feel. Good luck to you.... I feel your pain.
2007-03-24 19:34:45 · answer #7 · answered by sushihen2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's not happy with you for some reason..
go buy spy software called ghost keylogger and see what she is up to. it spys on her when she's on the computer without her knowing it.
2007-03-24 19:39:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a big joke and it's on you!
2007-03-24 19:39:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because she still wants to have sex with them !
2007-03-24 21:00:46 · answer #10 · answered by jesse5842 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋