my step dad beats on me all the time and he screams at my mom..wat should i do???

Answer 1

If you are afraid to report it to the police you can report him anonymously to child abuse. Your mother should not put you in this position, but since you are you should report him right away. He may overdo it one day and hurt you badly.

Answer 2

I'm so very sorry to hear about this. You really need to get some intervention. Not only is this man a physical abuser, he's also a mental abuser. Call the police to let them know what's going on and be sure to file a domestic violence action against him or have your mom do this. Also, be sure a Restraining Order is filed against him that will keep him from being around you or your mom at home and at school. Certain distances can be put into a Restraining Order. If he breaks the Restraining Order in any way, he can be arrested and taken to jail.

Good luck to you and your family.

Answer 3

I don't know how old you are but I do know this is a scary thing for any child to have to deal with. For ANYone to have to deal with. Your stepfather needs help and so does your mother, but most of all you do and you need it now. I dont want to say anything that could get you hurt or anyone around you hurt either so please take what I say and be as careful as possible when you do what you need to do. Go to an adult you trust. A teacher, a nurse in your school, a counselor in your school...if you go to school, and tell someone what is happening. I know you are scared and you will be so afraid to do this. You will be afraid that your mom will get mad at you, maybe that you are betraying her or something along those lines, but you will be doing what is right for you. No one should ever be afraid in their own home of being abused. what is happening to you is abuse and it is unacceptable. You can also contact a womens shelter for abused women and children and tell someone what is going on. they will do whatever it takes to get you help and a womens shelters main goal is to protect you 100 percent from the abuser. They will help you to be safe and they will try to help your mother too if she wants the help. You have to understand that you will most likely be taken out of the home for your safety. It might be the thing your mother needs to get away from your step father too. Talk to someone you KNOW will make sure that you are safe. It will be scary and you will probably cry a lot at first but it's the only way you can start to heal and live a safe and healthy life. You are doing the right thing. Don't make any calls from your home in the case that your stepfather hears it or finds out somehow that way. Again, talk to an adult who will make sure that you wont suffer at the hands of your stepfather for getting help. An adult who will protect you first and formost. Your school, your local womens shelter, even an emergency room doctor can help you by contacting the right people to help you. By law if you are being abused, they have to protect you from the abuser... so they wont just call your mom and dad and tell them to pick you up. You will get help. I hope everything is ok and works out for you. Life can get better and you can heal from this.

Answer 4

How old are you? If you're over 18 you can press assault charges. You'll probably have to find somewhere else to live though.

Now if you're under 18. Does you mother know? If not tell her first. She should call the police to have him arrested and removed from your home.

If your mom knows then call the police yourself. You're mother isn't going to help if she sees this and hasn't gotten you out already. You need to get out. If your bruises are visible right now then call the police and press charges.

I'm not going to lie. You're mother is going to be angry with you, it could cost you you're relationship with her. However she's chosen her husband not you.

Can you go live with your dad? A grandparent? A relative?

It will only get worse. You need to get out now.

Answer 5

Tell your teacher at school.Does your mom know he's hitting you? because if she does and hasen't put a stop to it she is as scared as you.It never gets better and make it clear to authorities that you dont want to stay there.Dont worry about mom getting mad, you should not be treated like this by anyone! A family memeber perferably strong male can also be told, but it might only anger stephag.Thats why the authorities should be notified A.S.AP. let us know what happened

Answer 6

Being beaten by your step-dad or any person is assault and you should call the police. (If you are under the age of 18 it is considered child abuse.) You and your mother are the victims of domestic violence and you must gain control of the situation to not only save yourself but your mother too. It will be hard but you have the strength to get yourself out of this situation and you MUST believe that you don't deserve to be treated this way, because you don't!

Answer 7

I think u ought tell ur mom she needs get out of the marrige before someone either gets hurt seriously or killed and also when he starts doing this bs you should run over to the nieghbors and call the local police dept to arrest him for abruse and vebral abruse.if you mom doesnt leave the sob then u ought go live with ur father.you shouldnt as child be put through all this.

Answer 8

1. Tell a guidance counselor/teacher.
2. Call the police.
3. Call the family services organization in your area.
4. Google "family services" and "hotline" for your state.

It sounds like your family needs some outside assistance pretty bad.

Good luck!

Answer 9

Report him. There is not much the police can do about him screaming at your mom, but they can stop him beating on you.

Call 911. If you are afraid to do it from home, go to a neighbor's or even the corner store.

No one should have to live with an abusive person. No one.

Answer 10

If he physically beats you, and draws blood or creates welts, then you are entitled to tell someone at your school or comunity police center, and child-fare will create an investigation. During this investigation, you will be examined for such physical injuries, and if it is found that your step-father is incompetent, then he will either be jailed, fined or restrained. If both your parents are incompetent, then you will be removed from your current home.

Answer 11

IF he TRULY is "beating" on you , you need to report it to a school counselor or a police officer. NO ONE has the right to put their hands on you !!! PERIOD. I wish you the best of luck and I will pray for you and your mother... I've been THAT MOTHER... and it's hard to make the decision to leave.. but sometimes there is no other way and the mother and children WILL find help out there if they seek it.