Ok I have been married since Feb and anyways we have a son and we are expecting our second one. Well him and his friend always goes out on Saturdays to these stupid all day events that spend money and are worthless for his time. But then he gets mad at me cause I am bored at home and have nothing too do. Mind you that I can not go out and goof off because who is going to watch our son. He works and I stay home but then he wants the house clean, dinner done and laundry done and does not care that I need time for me also. What should I do to teach him? Oh and this stupid *** event that I am talking about is magic the card game which is made for teenagers and people with no lives not for a 30 year old with 2 kids and a wife to support.
2007-03-24 12:12:29 · 9 answers · asked by kmylander03 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He needs to grow up, I would defiantly not put up with his selfish behavior. You too need to sit down and talk badly. Communication is the key, if he doesn't listen then separate. Maybe then he'll get the big picture.
2007-03-24 12:26:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he comes home from work, have your son already fed then get in the car and leave. Let him watch your son and he can wonder what he's going to eat and which of his clothes he should wash. Get out of the house for awhile and when you get home, tell him you went to see a card game.
2007-03-24 12:31:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you're doing your goofing off at home! I stayed home for some time (my wife was in the hospital for a month) with 3 kids. I had to get them ready for school, make their lunches and walk them (they were very young) to the bus. We had a dog and a cat and my wife was selling Avon! Guess who did that? I also managed to do all the "routine" things you say your husband wants you do to.
And you feel he needs to be taught something?
Maybe it's you who needs to learn.
The only thing he needs to be taught is how to leave! You say he works I'm sure he can send you a check.
2007-03-24 12:32:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's time to talk . Tell him that your tired of the way things are .
You need time for just you too. If he wants time with his friends then he should make a point to watch the kids and give you free time . If you give him a look at your views maybe he will see things differently . If he doesn't maybe its time for a rude awakening .Sometimes we don't appreciate what we have until its gone.
2007-03-24 12:23:30 · answer #4 · answered by mama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next saturday get up before him wash get dressed kiss your son good bye trun your cell off take the car and go out to your moom's or a friend stay gone all day that will teach then when you come back only bring you and your kid something to eat that will teach him
2007-03-24 12:18:16 · answer #5 · answered by m. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question would be "why did you marry him"? February is only last month. I don't approve of his behavior, but your inability to assess his character leaves you very vulnerable. Simply tell him what is acceptable and what is not and stand by your decision. If you don't have the courage to deal with it now it will only get worse. Trust me.
2007-03-24 12:31:01 · answer #6 · answered by stedyedy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a lot more to worry about than him playing Magic.
I think the two of you need professional help.
2007-03-24 12:20:12 · answer #7 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do your chores woman then you will have time to go out!!!!just put the baby in his lap and go shopping!why let him walk over you like that?
2007-03-24 12:26:37 · answer #8 · answered by injun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you need a MAN, not a boy.
2007-03-24 12:22:26 · answer #9 · answered by Chris S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋