I get really tired of people making comments about how sad it must be that my child is an only child. It's not like I planned to have only one child, but that is how the good Lord planned it. I haven't been on birth control since he was two, and he is now 14. My husband and I haven't done anything medically to have more, just think if it was meant to be it would be. I just feel lucky I had one at all. How would you respond to people's comments like "why only one?" and "how sad for your child that he doesn't have a brother/sister". I don't really think it is any of their business but feel I should respond. Any suggestions? Thanks!
2007-03-24 12:10:24 · 6 answers · asked by itsjustfoolishness 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
"I can buy him a dog. It would be cheaper."
"Why? You offering a trust fund for college for the little darlings if I have more?"
"I think it's very sad you would question the will of the divine in my life."
I think the third is the most polite answer, really.
~Morg~
2007-03-24 12:14:31 · answer #1 · answered by morgorond 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree do not worry what others think. I have only one child and my husband is ok with it. To be honest with the way society is I am glad. I always thought I would have at least three children but I have one. We are not planning anymore unless something happens. ( Besides we have two dogs and really it keeps me busy)
2007-03-24 19:18:32 · answer #2 · answered by ruthie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That would depend on how well you know that person. If they are a total stranger, or barely better, it is appropriate to say that it is none of their business! You may also counter with how you really feel about it: that you feel lucky to have even one child.
Good luck.
2007-03-24 19:15:39 · answer #3 · answered by MamaBear 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We have just the one as well, and for very much the same reason as you. We've had the same comments too.
My response tends to be either a shrug and a "Whatever", or a more jokey "Trust me, he's more than enough".
Hey, just noticed, mine is 14 too.
2007-03-24 19:14:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u respond exactly as u did in this letter that u wrote.
if u feel the need to explain that is because actually it is no ones business but ur own
good luck and God bless
2007-03-24 19:14:17 · answer #5 · answered by Nora G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is none of their business! YOu don't need to dignify their rudeness with a response, but if you feel the need, just give them the answer you gave us. It's just how God planned it. If it was meant to be, it would have happened. :) And as for their question of his happiness, just tell them he is happy receiving all of your undivided attention. :)
2007-03-24 19:39:05 · answer #6 · answered by Nena 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋