This guy i have gone out with 4 times all ready and he wants to get back together with me......but every time before he borke up with me...i think i like him still but i am not sure any more.....i do not want to be labled something bad cause i have gone out with this guy 4 times all ready and going out with him again.......
he is really sweet and he is shorter than me but i do not care about that.... and i went out with this other guy and he got really jeolus.... i do not know what to do and i get jeolus if he would go out with somebody....and this girl asked him out and he asked me if he could and i do not know what to do cause he has broke up with me before.... but i don't want to get hurt again but he said he won't break up with me again....
HELP ME!!!!
2007-03-24 12:09:10 · 12 answers · asked by Dominique F 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Stay away from him. He is a drama queen and a loser. He will only bring you down. He is bad news and you should forget about him and move on with your life.
2007-03-24 12:19:59 · answer #1 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run away. This is a destructive relationship pattern. You both feed off you're jealousy and drama. Or he does and your too dependent to realize it.
Let him go out with this other girl and you go find someone else. Someone who won't treat your emotions like a yo-yo. He will break up with you again you have 4 other examples of when he promised not to hurt you and he has. I understand you're invested emotionally in him for a while now but this is a very destructive relationship. My advice is to cut ties to him completely.
2007-03-24 19:27:12 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He only wants to go out with you because he knows from repeated experience that you will give in. Break the cycle and tell him no. He's using you.
As for saying he won't break up with you again, I'll bet thats not the first time he's ever said that. Let it be his last. Don't take the bait.
2007-03-25 03:59:04 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm all for giving a second chance under the right circumstances but a 5th???? It's way past time to move along. To him you're his "backup" while he's on the lookout for something else. If you keep going back he'll keep doing the same thing. Godd Luck:)
2007-03-24 19:32:20 · answer #4 · answered by fishincrzymama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go out with him again. It's not worth it if he keeps breaking up with you like that. I mean you can be friends, but nothing more than that would be a good idea if you don't want to get hurt.
2007-03-24 19:14:51 · answer #5 · answered by Emili T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything happens for a reason.. yeah you probably still do have feelings for him... but its better to try and forget then to get hurt again... yeah he said he won't break up with you again but what he say is different then what he might do....
2007-03-24 19:27:07 · answer #6 · answered by mely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no hun first off your giving this guy wayyyyyyyy to many chances. chances that he doesn't deserve from you. if you keep taking him back then he knows to keep hurting you because you'll take him back over and over. you can be with someone who will adore you. please stop waisting your time on him you can do soooooooo much better good luck.
2007-03-24 19:18:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what you have to do. You may not want to and you are looking for validation so here it is....Do what you gotta do.
2007-03-24 19:33:39 · answer #8 · answered by gfvigil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three strikes and you're out.
Give him up and move on.
2007-03-24 19:13:21 · answer #9 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he fools u once shame on him, he fools u twice shame on you.
2007-03-24 19:13:08 · answer #10 · answered by ... 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋