Why do some girls breakup with their boyfriend who felt that they were the whole world to them?
When they find another boyfriend they compare them to that special someone and realize that special someone was actually better??
I have a friend who is like that ...and is now confused. She felt insecured with that special guy and left him...That special guy of hers ...is still waiting for her. (How long i don't know). The problem is she has a boyfriend now.
Does some girls actually want to seek more to what they want...at the end it always end up with that special someone always the better one??
2007-03-24 11:52:48 · 8 answers · asked by Good and Evil 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think it is human nature to think the grass is greener on the other side. I occasionally hear guys say that they should never have let some girl get away. But usually this is a mistake of the young. You don't really have enough experience to know what kind of person you want to be with because you just haven't been doing it that long.
Your friend should decide just who she really wants to be with because it's not fair to either guy to stay like this.
2007-03-24 11:57:40 · answer #1 · answered by Sharon M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a case of those girls having never liked the guy in the first place and was just using him until some one better to them came along. There may as well be a good reason for moving on as there is two sides to every story. To me once a girl have met some one else and moved on i see it as a blessing in disguise and will never take her back; so this notion of the person she left being better and in some cases want to come back is some thing no reasonable person should entertain.
For there is no way of knowing that she will not run off with some one else and you are back to were you were. This guy better get his head together and move on as i would not wait a second once you are gone and move on. In some cases that guy might actually be putting his life and health in serious jearpody waiting for some one that will not come back; and in cases if that person do come back in your life.
They are not worth the uncertainty cloud they bring to the relationship that is a constant worry to your pysche as they are capable of wondering off with some one else in the future and worse of all living a double life with some one else.
Both men and women will seek more to what they have and since we know people's faces and not their hearts. We owe it to our well being and feelings to be judicious and listen to our gut feelings to any signs of some thing being wrong with the relationship we are in with some one.
It is a big mistake to let those ( Red Flags ) pass us by and do nothing to protect ourselves and well being.
2007-03-24 19:43:48 · answer #2 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really complicated but its because when your with them you only see that one side to them you don't really see the other side until your far away from them that you realize that he was the best thing you could have ever had .....tell your friend ..no but ask her in the eye which one she truly loves because if your going out with a guy just because hes cute but you have no feelings for him then all your doing is hurting him and you and the person that is waiting his whole heart out for you but at the end its really your decision .
2007-03-24 19:14:47 · answer #3 · answered by melonxpp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is: Women dont' know what they want. They'll secretly try to section themselves off from you even when they LOVE you. I'm a girl...i try to do the same thing. She secretly loves her ex, evidently, but maybe she just needs to compare things to see what she REALLY wants. Girls are complicated...they're not like guys.
2007-03-24 18:57:04 · answer #4 · answered by Bri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes your right or they just don't like the guy and want to make him feel better so the guy should move on because she's saving him for a rainy day
2007-03-24 18:56:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes because some girls don't realize what they did have until it's gone.
2007-03-24 18:58:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they want to have the best and be in comperative.
2007-03-24 18:58:00 · answer #7 · answered by Edward S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all part of growimg up try and enjoy
2007-03-24 18:56:04 · answer #8 · answered by imneiflim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋