It just happened to me. My best friend just hooked up with my childhood worst enemy. I don't know what to do. HELP!
2007-03-24 11:47:11 · 14 answers · asked by Melinda 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if she is your best friend, than you should respect that she may like this guy, even though you hate him... just because you are best friends, doesn't mean you like the same people... give her (and him) a chance
2007-03-24 11:59:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think that you should let your friend still have a relationship with your worst enemy. Though it sounds hard, if you push your friend to stop being friends with your worst enemy, you might in fact lose your friend in the process. If your worst enemy is truly a bad person, your friend will eventually find out. Just stay strong.
2007-03-24 11:53:22 · answer #2 · answered by Starstrukk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your best friend that your worst enemy hooked up with your best friend's enemy. Remember to find out your best friend's worst enemy. Wait, now I'm confused.
2007-03-24 11:50:07 · answer #3 · answered by Gay R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? Where is it written that to be friendly with this person that you cannot be friendly with some other one because of friction between them. Now, when your friend returns and finds out that you have been associating with the other friend, I am sure friend #1 will be upset at such news and feel betrayed to some degree. You and she will have to work it out some way and that is what growing up is all about. Where does your loyalty lay? Only you can decide this. Beware that such entanglements may put you on the spot of making a decision of which friend you prefer as the other one my no longer wish your company. There simply is no easy set of rules to follow. L8r
2016-03-29 02:37:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this happen to me but they didn't really stay friends. But my friend started hanging out with this other girl that i really REALLY don't like. Well she would always come over and talk to us and stuff. Well me and my other friends just didn't talk to her and kinda seperated a little from her. After a while she kinda got the hint and left. That friend who started talking to her in the first place, stills talks to her but not around us. The other thing to do is talk to your friend about the person you don't like that she's befriending. Hope this helps!
2007-03-24 11:56:42 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them be, if you can't get along with your them, than just try to avoid them so you guys don't get into a fight. Or, try to get along with them, maybe you two have some things in common. Don't get mad at your friend for befriending your worst enemy, be happy for them. It's their life, not yours, so they should be able to choose who they are friends with, who they see, and what they do.
2007-03-24 11:53:10 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to ur bestfriend about it...its the ONLY way.... tell her how u feel and how the person has treated u....most likely if she is ur BEST friend than she wont be on good terms with the enemy anymore...
2007-03-24 11:51:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know how it goes...keep your friends close but your enemies closer. maybe you might just make a friend out of your enemy. good luck.
2007-03-24 11:53:10 · answer #8 · answered by melfuentes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he did that than that means he is not a good friend at all. The only way that i wouldn't mind is if he is reeeeally head over heels for her, but other than that i would ask him why he did that if he knew I hated her.
2007-03-24 11:59:23 · answer #9 · answered by Jen25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now its your turn. There is no reason for you to have an enemy for any reason. find it in your heart to forgive and see what your other friend sees in her. there is no reason fo you guys to not all get along. give it a try.
2007-03-24 11:50:40 · answer #10 · answered by Youll See 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋