I am in a relationship and for the most part I am happy, however my partner never helps me and never really lets on that he cares. I know he does but after telling him hundreds of times I need help and even a hug now and then would do, I have fallen for somebody else. I really do love my partner and don't want to leave, but the other person is in my head 24-7 and I feeling myself wanting this person more. Help some advice plse
2007-03-24 11:42:23 · 8 answers · asked by hatfieldnomi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
the easy option would be to leave your man and go be with this new man as he would be able to give you everything your man does not! i know your current man does not give you enough of what you need! maybe you should try be alone for while so you would know if your making the right decsion leaving your man!
or maybe ou could tell him how you fele that way he could get a kick up his ***!!!!
YOU ARE NOT A WHORE NEVER MIND WHAT THE PERSON ABOVE ME SAID!!!!!!
2007-03-24 12:10:31 · answer #1 · answered by SWANNY AND SNUGGLES! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You said your partner dont help thats fine is he working all the time as i am the same i dont tend to help as much as i could but i do also work 6 days a week and attend college for one day. So by the time i get home i am extremily tired i do help soetimes but when i dont help i am studying. Could it be the same for him. As for the falling for someone else if you love your partner you would stay with him, it doesn't matter whether they help as that can change in time. Just talk to him and let him know how you are feeling.
You probably want this other person more because they seem to have traits your current partner dont have but just remember the grass isn't always greener on the otherside. The new person will change and may not help either. Just get stricter on your partner they will soon help or dont do anything and the will soon help.....
2007-03-24 23:09:56 · answer #2 · answered by frogs are cute 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youve tried and failed to get what you want - and deserve from your partner. Theres no improvement so now your thinking about this other person, thinking they could offer you the affection and support you want.
I would assess your current relationship, and try to get out of it. But I would not go after this other person either, since it is only a longing for what you did not have.
Find someone completely new, who gives you what you want and need! Then you will be fully happy, and not just partly!
2007-03-24 12:27:01 · answer #3 · answered by Kirsty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We cannot love to order. You want to remain faithful, yet it seems you desire this other person.
You have to follow your heart. Not what you want, but what you know is fundamentally right.
Demand more of your partner, get him involved, don't let him get away with expressing his love for you by taking you for granted. Don't wish it will happen, work at it.
Beware of infatuation. Most wives have more reason to hate than love their husbands, in general we are lazy, ungrateful, opinionated, and are often annoying. So I would say that you don't love a man until you can see his faults.
2007-03-24 12:15:27 · answer #4 · answered by d00ney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Intuition and common sense should guide you towards a possible solution.No one but your self can make that decision for you with any guaranties that it will be the right one. You know them best.
2007-03-24 11:56:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi naughty,do you really love the guy your with ? are are you fooling yourself? i have been in a simaler situation .my girlfriend trully loved me but i could not be the same, s--t happen,s you can only go for the one who is the one regardless of what happen,s go for what you want kid it is better than to have loved , than lost than to have never loved at all then you can settle
2007-03-24 12:17:29 · answer #6 · answered by Ken M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there, if there arent kids involved then i would definately go , but again you cant stay with someone just for the sake of children
2007-03-24 11:47:04 · answer #7 · answered by moomintroll77 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just try to resist. He's obviously not the right person for you
2007-03-24 11:46:56 · answer #8 · answered by Terminator 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋