I have had many good friends throught out my short yrs. I am now 22, and I had a friend since 17, a best friend. And all of a sudden he suddenly stopped being my friend. As wih any other friend I've had...they've all just stopped completely. I havent done anything wrong...some were girls but most were men. All I ever really did was be an awesome best friend, and I just dont understand why ppl say they'll always be there for you, and one day...when U need them the most - suddenly they're just gone.
none have ever told me why...I am married...have no kids, and when I got married...everyone seemed very cool w/ it all..
This just doesnt make any sense to me. I am now afraid to try and be friends w/ anyone..cause I fear the same defeat as all the others.
So I am completely alone w/ no friends...is it really my fault?? And I dont seem needy or clingy..I just like to have a good time...talk or listen when needed...geez who doesnt?? Got any special wisdom for me :(
2007-03-24 11:37:06 · 8 answers · asked by Kim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
people grow and change, you did. it's normal. you and your wife need to do more things together where you can make new friends.
2007-03-24 11:41:34 · answer #1 · answered by barb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're probably jealous. Maybe of your husband, or just the fact that you're married and maybe they aren't. If you have your husband, he should be your closest friend. He should listen to you talk and give you support. You and your husband should take some classes. Maybe like a dancing class or a class for learning another language. You guys will meet lots of friends. Also try getting together with neighbors.It's probably not your fault. If you've been nothing but nice to ur buds, they're most likely jealous. People change. Good Luck!
2007-03-24 11:44:06 · answer #2 · answered by sunshiney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick the person who was this "best friend" and visit him, or call him. Be blunt, as you have in this forum, and explain that it is obvious that you did something, but just dont know exactly what. Tell them that you understand if the person doesn't really want to reconcile (although youd like to), but for future relationships, you'd like to know in order to help make yourself a better person. Be sincere, take whatever gets heaped on your head without getting mad, and thank the person for whatever response you get. Then take that info to heart and make yourself a better person
2007-03-24 11:41:35 · answer #3 · answered by Shredded Cottage Cheese 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People grow up and start their careers maybe family. You shouldnt feel bad thats just how it is. Im sure they still consider you a friend but the teenage years are over its time to be a man. Your next best friend will be your wife...LOL(real talk)
2007-03-24 11:41:18 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's jeleous of you. She additionally wanted to apply your seems to bag her a guy. Its no longer hassle-free to enable flow of something which you're used to yet there are human beings in this international that value you for you rather than what you may furnish them. I had an identical adventure and am nonetheless looking it no longer hassle-free understanding that Im no longer area of her life. yet I enable decide for a reason and that reason jogs my memory why I dont flow backwards.
2016-10-20 08:48:59 · answer #5 · answered by mcfee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As years pass, and lives change (especially after you have married), you should have new priorities. Do those things you long for with your friends---with your spouse and family members. Have a good time with family,be the family socializer!!!!
2007-03-24 11:57:28 · answer #6 · answered by tutula 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same here, people move on I guess. Try looking for some new friends. =/
2007-03-24 11:39:46 · answer #7 · answered by rocktillyourheartscontent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont know. i guess everyone changes and everyone moves on. maybe thats what happened.
2007-03-24 11:41:15 · answer #8 · answered by Raine[: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋