i went to my Brother tyler's house on St. Pattys day (tyler is actually my friend but he is like a brother to me) ok but we went to his house and he said that he waz going to get high tonite i thought he waz just like im gonna be crazy tonite and have funn but he waz serious and he took out drugs and now i dont know what to think of him what should i do???
2007-03-24 11:36:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I wouldn't do anything. He is your brother. If you are concerned about him. Say so. Keep communication open. There are many good people who use some drugs recreationally. Some of the best people that I know smoke. Drugs can be dangerous. Make sure it doesn't become a pattern. Some drugs are too dangerous to try once. Please talk to someone you trust to be truthful with you about this specific incident.
Take care
2007-03-24 11:45:22 · answer #1 · answered by Jen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel. If he doesn't listen tell his parents. Get him help the last thing you want is a friend with an addiction problem. It hurts them more than it hurts you. Do not leave him as a friend. When someone has a serious problem and they confront it they need people there. Someone they can trust and confide in. I know because I was the same way before.. I to had a problem with drugs and alcohol. What you've got to remember is he has to want to change.
2007-03-24 11:43:18 · answer #2 · answered by rocktillyourheartscontent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can talk to him about it and let him know how you feel about him doing the drugs. If he stops, then he does really care what you think. To tell you the truth there isn't really much you can do for someone that does drugs. Its all in the mind. Good luck.
2007-03-24 11:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stay from around him, you do not want to get caught up with any one like that. And you need to talk to him when he is sober, and tell him that you was shocked, that you thought that he had more sense then that. Tell him if he continues this life style, you do not want to be around him. Tell him he knows what drugs does to the brain, and that you never thought he would go this way!
2007-03-24 11:43:19 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had the same problem a few years ago. I just let my friend know that I was not into that and asked her not do do it around me. She respected my wishes. And she has never done it around me.
2007-03-24 11:45:53 · answer #5 · answered by Rhonda P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell his parents...and find a new friend. If he straightens out, the you can start the friendship again at a later time....
2007-03-24 11:44:10 · answer #6 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOU COULD TELL HIM TO STOP ITS GONNA MAKE A LUNG COME DOWN AND ITS NOT REALLY GOOD TO HIM !!!!! WHEN U GO TO HIS HOUSE AGAIN TELL HIM HE COULD DIE AND JUST GIVE HIM A BIG HUG AN PRAY FOR HIM TOO !!!!!
2007-03-24 11:52:03 · answer #7 · answered by ekeara123 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋