i am in love with this rly hott guy at skool, and it is not lust i know that is for sure!!!...but what do i do, iv never had a boyfriend, and im trying to figure out how to get one, cuz usually they all end up saying that im rly ugly! wat do i do PLEASE HELP MEH!
2007-03-24 11:06:55 · 4 answers · asked by Emms 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
How do you know the difference between love and lust ??
From the way you have interpreted your plight, I sense that it is an unrequited attraction.
If you are going to hang around waiting for people to say that you are ugly, well you ar mixing with a bunch of creeps.
After all, it's about how confident you are in the company of others, rather than trying to latch on to something that ain't available.
See if you can meet someone away from school, maybe a social or sporting group. This way you will find common ground without the insults. Good Luck
2007-03-24 11:20:44 · answer #1 · answered by jemima 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK . First thing try talking to him normally and try to find his temperament , likes ,dislikes and so on . Then slowly get to know him better and try to impress him at situations . Doing so you can develop a healthy relationship and get to know him well and eventually both of you will start liking each other .Then you can start telling him how much you like him and so on. Important you need to be quick before it's too late before some other girl is gonna do this before you could.
Good luck !
2007-03-24 18:25:04 · answer #2 · answered by harish h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy at school?. What school?. Elementary?. Junior high?. etc. Are u ready for a relationship?. "In love" because he's hot?. How well do you know him?. Are you serious or do you feel left out because u have not had a boyfriend. If you can trust your mom,talk to her.
2007-03-24 18:25:40 · answer #3 · answered by patrick m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
approach him. tell him how you feel...
2007-03-24 18:19:12 · answer #4 · answered by dr.macgruder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋