My wife's friend confided with me that my wife complained to her about wanting to not have to have a man in her life. My wife makes me feel this way almost every day with words or actions. I had asked her about this and she doesn't try to relieve my anxiety. I told her that she should have told me that before she said "I do". Some examples: (1) She will complain to me that I work too much overtime, but doesn't seem interested in spending time togther when I'm off. (2)She can sit home for days as she has a very flexable part time work schedule, but when there is an opportunity for us to be together is when she will have errands to run. (3)She likes to stay up late watching tv, then falls asleep on the sofa, never coming to bed. (4) fowards me emails that she gets from guys she met on match.com (we were seperated for almost two years), then tells me its no big deal.
2007-03-24 11:05:52 · 6 answers · asked by The Central Scrutinizer 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She doesn't want to be with you. I've been there. Period.
2007-03-24 11:11:31 · answer #1 · answered by Invictus 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, there are a lot of responsibilities, but that's hardly the issue. She obviously doesn't want to be married anymore. She's distancing herself from you physically and verbally. The signs are pretty clear. It's time to go your seperate ways, my friend. Sorry, but she doesn't seem to care much, so why should you?
2007-03-24 18:12:24 · answer #2 · answered by Chris S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually your wife has been seeing another men.No matter her pretence it is very obvious.she doesnot come to bed because someone has allready done your job.but you are in a good position to judge because you know her the best here.
Your absence has rub your wife from you,beside she now find your copany borring and cannot look into your eyes anymore because her conscious blame her in your presence. please try to mend your relation it will be good again if you put more effort.Goodluck.
2007-03-24 18:19:24 · answer #3 · answered by ebiyedinak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have real issues and I would like to suggest that you seek counseling because your marriage is on a downward spiral. Unless there is a therapist on-line you won't get the help you need for this here.
2007-03-24 18:10:35 · answer #4 · answered by rosser_girl_68 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Grant her wish. Tell her if she doesn't want a man in her life - that's what she can have. See how far her "flexible part-time job" gets her. I hope there are no kids involved. Sounds like she is lazy and bored.
2007-03-24 18:30:48 · answer #5 · answered by lucki female 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce her and be done with it. Let her find out those wonderful prince charmings are not what they seem to be. Thats why there looking for love online...
2007-03-24 18:12:46 · answer #6 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋