well my boyfriend just break up with me recently and we both understood that our relationship weren'y working. we know each other well, we were best friends for two years bfore we went out. it's just really weird when we were together, there was sparks but no fire. when we break up i wasn't devastated. i practically took it as a joke but now i feel sad. should i plan revenge or remain as friends with him??? any suggestions??
2007-03-24 10:57:17 · 7 answers · asked by Olivanlav 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why plan revenge? He didn't do anything wrong, he just broke up with you and you weren't even all that upset. Move on, and make new friends.
2007-03-24 11:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to plan revenge on him? You both decided that there was no fire and agreed to break up. You practically took it as a joke. Now after being broke up a while you feel sad. It sounds like you don't know what you want!
If you feel sad and are sorry you broke up with the guy let him know and see if he wants to start going out with you again. If you don't want to go out with him just remain as friends. He hasn't done anything for you to be plotting against him.
2007-03-24 11:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since you both saw you relationship wasn't working out revenge is out of the question. you obviously just like to be around if you dont like him in that way. so keep him as a friend. your still obligated to like him at least a bit though.
2007-03-24 11:21:49 · answer #3 · answered by . 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were his friend for two years before, you should probably still be his friend. I was in the same situation earlier this year. We ignored each other for a while, but then were friends. Don't plan revenge, that'll cost you your friendship!
2007-03-24 11:02:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said you both agreed the relationship wasn't working, so why get revenge when you agreed with him. long term you will get more out of continuing to be his friend than getting revenge.
2007-03-24 11:34:45 · answer #5 · answered by curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get on with your life, if you are really meant to be friends, it'll come back around.
Take care and find happiness in yourself.
2007-03-24 11:34:53 · answer #6 · answered by oracle1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no need here for revenge....at least he was honest and broke it off.....he could have just cheated on you or left you hanging.....give the guy a break.....and chill
2007-03-24 11:20:23 · answer #7 · answered by STARZ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋