i know some ppl have there own thoughts about this subject, so please no dissin. im trying anal sex with my fionce. its nice as long as we go slow, becouse its my first time. im just woundering if its safe for the baby and what lubes to use for extra help...
2007-03-24 10:48:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I wouldn't see why it wouldn't be safe. I've used something you can probably find in an adult store, although I got mine at a pleasure party (where you can buy adult toys and stuff at home through a catalog if you're too embarrased to go to the store). It's a gel called Anal Ease and it lubricates as well as numbs the area a little so while you can still feel it, it won't be as painful as if you didn't use it at all.
2007-03-25 03:34:12 · answer #1 · answered by zuckie44 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No reason not to, if it's still comfortable for you and you don't have hemrhoids (sp?) or anything. It won't affect the baby in any way. I'd recommend using KY jelly for lube. Have fun!
2007-03-24 19:01:22 · answer #2 · answered by grayhare 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he is gentle, and there is no vaginal penetration after the anal then it is fine. as well you need to use a washcloth and warm soapy water to clean up afterward. as for lubes, petroleum jelly was the best I found, although it is a bit messy to use.
2007-03-24 18:18:28 · answer #3 · answered by lydia manning 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*Blank Stare* Could be pretty painful.... I think vaseline (if ur not using condoms) and KY Jelly (If u wanna use condoms)
PS: The blank stare is because I would think you'd have hemorrhoids at this stage!!!! :-)
2007-03-24 18:18:27 · answer #4 · answered by justjessica718 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://parenting.ivillage.com/pregnancy/psex/0,,midwife_3pjq,00.html
2007-03-24 18:21:06 · answer #5 · answered by LaRae L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋