Learning this.
A long time ago I thought that love was something that you reserved for some special set of people that you had judged worthy of it.
After a while I got to thinking about what Jesus had said about turning the other cheek and loving our neighbor I put the two together and realized that he had made no exceptions in these statements. It became obvious to me that he intended that we exclude no one from the love that we are supposed to be giving. I started thinking about my idea of love and suddenly realized that I had not been loving anyone at all. I had simply been judging everyone and every thing.
Judging someone worthy of love is not love, it is only judgment. I actually started to cry when I realized this. I saw just how much of my life I had wasted being judgmental, thinking of myself as a Christian, when I was actually doing just the opposite of what Jesus had asked us to do.
I thought about the verse judge not lest ye be judged, and I understood it for the first time.
I realized that I have a lot of catching up to do. So many opportunities were wasted. I now try to apply the love that I have for the world in a universal way like Jesus asks us to do.
If I start to feel afraid and think that I see someone that I should not love because of something I have thought or heard I try to catch my mistake as soon as possible. I tell myself that I have forgot the truth and have fallen for the same old trick that had cost me so many opportunities to be loving in the past. The horror of this realization is often all that is necessary to bring me back to my senses and make me drop the judgmental nonsense I was thinking.
I still have a lot to learn about love, but at least I’m making progress.
Love and blessings
Your brother
don
2007-03-24 10:37:26
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answered by Anonymous
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Reverence
2007-03-28 12:35:50
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answer #2
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answered by Izen G 5
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Make a difference in my life and others.
Which is becoming a successful business woman and by then help establish so many good things around me.
2007-03-24 17:59:50
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answered by Pinky 3
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Knowledge & Power
2007-03-27 11:43:42
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answered by Caduceus89 4
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*Treat everyone with respect and dignity.
*Give my students the benefit of the doubt, and to be their best resource for a successful life.
*Work out!
**Martial arts
**Weights
**Jogging
*Keep my mind open
**New movies/documentaries
**Worship (My Church! A truly rockin' place!)
**Books (one day I'll be able to afford to purchase and read the latest graduate level political science texts! Okay, I admit it, I'm a nerd ...).
Peace.
(;=]
2007-03-24 19:43:17
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answered by chuck U 5
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My College education, and family
2007-03-24 17:33:22
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answered by Rocker Chick 4
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My family and feeling of security connected to them.
2007-03-24 19:04:47
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answered by uncoolmom 5
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mine personally are to make sure i live like i wanna live, my family, and my boyfriend (who i'll be marrying soon), and just trying to full-fill my dreams hopes and ambitions
2007-03-24 17:42:42
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answered by organiz'd khoaz 5
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Potato and leek gratin
2007-03-24 17:33:49
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answered by Anonymous
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To be happy no matter what.
2007-03-24 19:03:29
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answered by oregonerin 2
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