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i have been with my bf for almost a year. I started messing with him while he was in his last days with his Ex gf. This girl, atleast to my knowledge, had been sending him notes tellin him how she felt about him. In dec. she had a baby and claimed the baby is his. She is currently dating a friend of mine.

I still have insecure feelings about her and me and my BF relationship and its putting a strain on us. I try to think that his ex is happy off with her bf and that she can't do harm to my relat. but we are also still waitin for the paternity results to come back and thats another strain.

What should / can i do?

We love each other and we've broken up countless times only to get back together each time

2007-03-24 10:26:04 · 6 answers · asked by SouthCackalacky 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

6 answers

If you really love one another then there is nothing that can stand between you, if he loves you he wont lok back at her so just trust him & enjoy.
Good luck

2007-03-24 10:32:12 · answer #1 · answered by kitycat 3 · 0 0

Sorry to say this but what goes around comes around and you did say you were messing around with him when you knew he was still with his GF even if it was there last days you should have waited. Im sure you will learn from this and be more patient next time b/c he is about to give you the boot think about it if he cheated with you he will cheat with someone else.lol

2007-03-24 10:33:49 · answer #2 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0 0

Once the paternity results come back, he needs to cut all ties with her, now if he can't. then you need to go, no sense waiting around for him to know what he wants. You need to want more for your self. He has to be a man, and tell her, that he is in a relationship, and that it is not right for her to be in touch with him. that he hopes she has a nice life, and do not contact him anymore!

2007-03-24 10:33:46 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0 0

I think you shoulld talk to your bf. There is really no sure way to figure out what people are thinking unless you ask them....even then you cant always get the whole truth. I dont think you should worry to bad though....just keep your watch out if anything weird happens then jump on it and figure it out

2007-03-24 10:30:19 · answer #4 · answered by johndeererox 2 · 0 0

He should be staying well away from her but if I was in your shoes I couldn't let this one go I would always be paranoid in the back of my mind and it would kill me eventually, soz im just giving you my honest opinion.

2007-03-24 10:30:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Girl you dont need that drama. Hopefully its not his baby and you guys can move happily. but if it is get out and move on. and tell him to tell her to stop talking to him if its not his baby.

2007-03-24 10:33:56 · answer #6 · answered by craziglueforever 2 · 0 0

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