why is your family always seems to be up in your business all the time when it comes to your kids an your man?

Answer 1

Sometimes it is because you tell them all of your business, and that is why they have so much to say. And sometimes also, it is because they are jealous, misery loves company!

Answer 2

They are "up in your business" because you allow them to be.

Set boundaries and then enforce them. Sometimes families get involved because of love, and sometimes because they feel the need to control. Decide which is determining their interference and then act upon your decision.

They can't come in unless you let them. Choose.