2007-03-24 10:06:34 · 13 answers · asked by micheyboo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I guess it would depend on what the problem is.
2007-03-24 10:10:09 · answer #1 · answered by SAMMY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that depends on why you want to leave him. Is he abusive in any way or are you just bored? The fact is he will always be in your life in some way or another because you have had a child together. If he is abusive you should seek help and leave. If you are just bored you should try to add some spark and try to make it work. The grass is not aways greener on the other side.
2007-03-24 10:12:40 · answer #2 · answered by peachy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Is there abuse involved, either of you or the baby? Then absolutely, that's a no brainer, you get the heck out of Dodge for your and that baby's safety.
Has he cheated? Well, that's not a no brainer, I've known people who worked through affairs in a marriage and have come out better and closer together for it, and some who absolutely couldn't get over it, and wound up divorcing. I've also known people who decided to divorce over it. Some say it was the best thing they did, others say they wish they would've tried harder to work it out.
Any other reason...it honestly depends. I'd reccommend marriage counseling before splitting up a marriage with a child. You loved him enough to have sex with him to conceive the child. Now love him enough to get through the rough parts of marriage. And adjusting to life as a parent is one of those rough parts.
2007-03-24 10:15:54 · answer #3 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if the relationship won't work then you don't have much choice. Kids sense things, and mom and dad fighting isn't a good environment. Move on, be a good parent, and I'm sure you child will be ok. If you're not happy, what chance do you have of making your child happy?
2007-03-24 10:10:29 · answer #4 · answered by Principessa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to weigh your odds. Why you are not happy? Try and work on your relationship, may be you need counseling. You never said what the problem was between the two of you. But think, before you make any bad moves!
2007-03-24 10:12:11 · answer #5 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. Give it at least until the kid is about 2. Men have post-pardom just like we do. Hopefully the relationship was good before the kid or you wouldn't have had one together, right? Give it some time... maybe it will turn around. Mine did.
2007-03-24 10:09:07 · answer #6 · answered by lucki female 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wat kinda of question is that?
My wife-to-be also dump our 7-years relation for a man who she knew for 6-months..Wat can I do then? I cried, I pled, I punched the payphone & the boot of the car...
Wats going will be gone..I still don't get the full and real explaination from her after nearly 10 years.. But life go on..
Wat to do? Live on.
2007-03-24 10:12:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, you gotta be a little more specific,about the situation if you are serious looking for an answer.Nobody knows whats going on in the relationship to make you come to the battle of decision,ok? :)
2007-03-24 10:10:42 · answer #8 · answered by luv11syng 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you aren't happy then yes
staying together for the kids isn't always the best reason
If your not happy its going to be hard to make your kids or anyone else happy.
Best of luck to you
2007-03-24 10:32:51 · answer #9 · answered by heather_honey_2002hs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, girl he might be still be in love and might be in love to keep your man and i bet he is a great father but if he is getting on your nerves really bad its your choice
2007-03-24 10:10:39 · answer #10 · answered by cutie pie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋