Do you ever feel..?

Question

alone? I am 15 years old i have been feeling like this for the past year. I'll be standing in a room full of people and find myself thinking if i wasn't here, would anyone really miss me?
I have a couple of close friends, but over the past 6 months i feel like i hardly know them anymore. It feels like everyone else is so happy they don't really notice me. I feel like i have no one to talk to. And i am also reconsidering moving schools, because we are soon to be moving house quite far away from my school. I would like some advice and i really want to know if anyone else feels like this? I don't think i'm depressed i just hate my life.

Answer 1

I am a 14 year old girl and I do feel like this many times. My parents are also considering to move to somewhere far way from where we currently live. I do want to move though, because I'm pretty tired of the way that people know me. I want to start a new "life". I want to be somewhere where no one knew me before. I don't know what you would call it,...maybe starting all over again. Well, I don't think I've answered your question, but isn't it nice to know that you are not the only one that feels this way. I think you should be happy that you are moving from schools. Maybe you need a new 'beginning', just like me.If you want, you can e-mail me if you need someone to talk to:)

Answer 2

Sure - every one feels alone at times, sometimes for years. You might be thinking about your future and what your life will be like and people around you are not on your level. When I was in high school I felt the exact same way. I went to see my high school counselor and did not tell anyone - including my parents. He let me say I was working on an extra credit project or something like that. It saved my life.

Be patient you are not alone - a new school could mean a whole new set of doors opening. You sound like a very caring and kind person. Everyone feels lonely sometimes. Get help before it becomes a permanent feeling as an adult. (Help means talking to another adult who makes you feel BETTER when you are done talking to them.)

Answer 3

I am on the same page with you.
Over the years I have made friends, some good - some bad.
In the end (today) most of my friends who I thought I could trust have berayed me. Its a crappy thing. I feel as if I can no longer trust anyone.

I feel the same way when i'm at parties, would anyone care if I wasn't there..... etc.

I only sit back and hope someday soon I will get paid back for all of the bad.

Answer 4

people feel like that more often than what you will get them to admit. you may consider talking to someone maybe a counselor. be honest with them and tell them how you are feeling. if you can't let it out of your mouth, print this out and have them read it.

feeling alone and that no one cares are things that people feel when they are most vulnerable. feeling like you don't matter or that people would be better off, or not miss you if you are gone, are things that people who are going through a vouch of depression would feel. that i would be concerned about if i were you. can you talk to your parents? it's normal for teenagers to go through different stages of depression. you just don't want it to go untreated.

at your age, you are dealing with so much. when i was your age and even older i felt like that. i was able to see a therapist. it was the best thing that i could have done. sitting down and talking to someone who will not judge you is the best thing that can happen to you. they will help you think things through. and work along with you to figure out why you feel the way you do.


regarding hating your life...

as long as you muscle it through and do what is best for you (right now it's mentally) you will see that this is just another stage in your growing up.

think of all the wonderful things you are going to do, the great plans you will make, the fantastic new people you are going to meet in the future, how happy you will make people in your future, how many lives you are going to impact, who you will influence, what you will achieve, your dreams that you haven't even thought of yet. all the people that are going to love and cherish you. and all the people who will become important in your life.

i could go on and on...sweetie, this is only a blink in your entire lifetime...i know it feels like there is no end to this, but there is an end. just look to your future and be exited about it.

it sucks for me to say this, but it is true. there are tons of people who will never get to be your age, life was not that giving to them. you have this great gift, enjoy it...the best you can...

it will all pass...

Answer 5

kellonk your not the only one who feels like that. Everyone feels like that at some point in their lives. Your friends will also be thinking the same as you.This is the time when you fall out and make new friends as your starting to realise things now. I would have to tell you to chat to someone about how your feeling don't bottle things up. Just human nature to feel like this. You sound very mature and i'm sure it will work itself out. All the best for the future and making new friends along the way x

Answer 6

i think 99% of teenagers feel like this at some point and time, even if ur friends dont show it, they could also relate to ur problem. and hey if ur moving schools, its a great chance at have a clean slate for making new friends, nobody knows u so theres no reason not to want to get to know u.
I felt the exact way when i was 15, don't worry, u'll go from depressed to high on life, thats just the way things roll. good luck

Answer 7

I felt like that when I was your age. I felt like I didn't belong anywhere. It was a sad feeling to me. Before you let it go much deeper, I would see a school counselor, or talk with your parents. You should also make a plan in your life. With out a plan you have nothing to look forward too. You need to find a interest, a healthy one, and try it out. It could be a interest that's not even going on at school. Learning to play a instrument, or sing, or playing a sport. Something to look forward too. Skating, tennis, theirs lots of things..

Answer 8

Hormones are raging right now. What you feel is normal for someone your age. I've been there before too. To answer your question would it matter if you weren't there...maybe, maybe not. But you are there. If you walked outside, how long before they noticed you were gone??? Maybe they wouldn't notice at all? But if you stopped being, they'd definately miss you.
We all hate life at some point, but I assure you, life gets better...then worse...then better again.
Enjoy being young and do yourself a big favor and explore the wonders of the world. It's here, so enjoy it!
Best of luck!

Mike

Answer 9

there is no problem of feeling like this u r porbably going through a phrase. if u talk to ur friends a lot then u prabably have no problem i am 14 and i use to feel like that when my mom died b/c she was the best thing that ever happen to me and she died last year i am stiill feeling like that but i have expanded my friends circle to people that understand how i feel maybe u should do that too. n u will regret moving b/c u will have to restart life again unless that is what u want to do. u should try talking to someone u trust about ur problem that helps a lot just talking about soo good luck w/ur problem

Answer 10

oh my god!! i fell the same ways as you do but see i am 13 years and so far those 13 years that i have been live i already want to die! see i bet you have i nice life you just feel like this cause you are moving or whatever but see my life sucks *** 2 my mom is a ***** and my dad is a drunk, i am soo ugly ad i don't have the perfect body. and it seems like you are the only one that is there and no one is looking at you even when you are crying,Right? Yep. my life sucks *** too and all you need is someone that you love and that loves you too and just talk to them or just write your feelings in a book and just let all your pain out. just hang in there


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