how do i convince my mom to let me go??
because of our cultural strictness and the fact that i'm a girl, she won't let me. GRRR!!!
please HELP!!! any tips?!
2007-03-24 09:48:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Other - Entertainment
Your an adult, make a decision for yourself. Unless, of course, she's the one with the money...then your skeeeroooood!
2007-03-24 09:51:35 · answer #1 · answered by Cronides 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can she stop someone 21 years old? are you still living at home? You want her to pay for the trip because you don't have a job and are living off your mothers money?
I mean at 21 I had been on my own for a long time and my mother didn't even know what I was doing.
Did you go to a four year college so that you are still home then until you graduate and get a job and a house of your own bite a bullet. thank God you have someone to help you through school. If your just staying home living off your mother than get a job.
2007-03-24 09:53:21 · answer #2 · answered by Steven 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what your culture is but I'm guessing you still live at home. Does or is your father living at home? If you can convince him you won't have to worry about your mom. Dad's usually the boss. If you don't live at home I wouldn't worry about going. The only other thing is to give her the reasons why she should trust you and not to forget that this is a different time than when she grew up and a different country.
2007-03-24 10:01:09 · answer #3 · answered by BrownEyedGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you 21 still living with mom? I'm not judging just asking. Maybe you're in college or something, but 21 is a pretty good age to make you're own decisions if you are fronting the bill. Just try to talk to her, but if you're mom has the last word there's not much you can do.
2007-03-24 09:52:05 · answer #4 · answered by imagine_tha_possibilities 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
won't "enable" a 21 365 days previous? excuse me, she is of age and that i'm exceedingly confident that makes her an grownup. If i grew to become into 21 and my mom nonetheless ran my life, i might flow out, make my very own way. you would be able to love and admire your mom with out being tied to her apron strings. tell mom, "i like and admire you mom, besides the fact that, i'm of legal age. i'm procuring the airfare and the stay overall performance. i'm going. i'm going to touch you when I arrive and enable you to comprehend i'm ok. i'm going to call when I initiate the holiday residing house so which you comprehend while to assume me residing house. Oh, and might you % to flow with me?"
2016-10-20 08:44:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ask ur mom ur going to go some where, just let her know where you r going and when u will be back. if you have a job you can save up for the concert., and just have your cell phone charged up and on for ur mamma can call u if needed, i am 25 and since i turned 18 i never asked my mom if i can go some where, i just tell here where i am going and when i should be back. my mom will hate it but i am planing a trip to las vegas for my self for the summer time, just do it, dont ask mum just let her know
2007-03-24 10:07:39 · answer #6 · answered by chris rd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her no that u r 21 years old and u r old enough to look after urself and b careful...its also ur life and its time 4 u 2 make ur own decisions tell her that!!!!!!!!! good luck!
2007-03-24 09:52:14 · answer #7 · answered by MiMi™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go.
If you have the money than go for it.
You're 21 years old.
That's old enough to drink, drive, and vote.
You're an adult.
You can do adult things without your mommy telling you to.
2007-03-24 09:51:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
considering that ur 21, you can go anyway, but if you are under her rules (living in her house, staying for free) then you have to try to calmly explain that you respect her wishes, and that you respect her advice but you are an adult. even though you will always turn to her for help and advice, you feel that you understannd wat ur doing. tellling her that you are still her little girl, will remind her that your not doing this in spite of her.
hope that helps!!
2007-03-24 09:55:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, I still don't gt why you need to convince her, didn't you say you were 21?
2007-03-24 09:50:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋