I'm 14 years old and my boyfriend said he was thinking of porpusing to me. What should I do?

Answer 1

I think you would make a big mistake by saying yes. Come on you're 14! You have so many experiences to do yet, don't rush into anything!

Answer 2

I *love* that people are here telling this girl, "If you can't spell 'proposal', then **your** **to** young to get married. Grow up and learn how to spell."

Hey folks - that's "**you're** **too** young."

Grow up and learn how to spell. Hah!

Anyway, half pint, it is [1] most likely against the law for you to get married at such a young age and [2] a bad idea for someone so young to get married. It was fine when people only lived to be 35 back in the old days (you know, the 1950's), but today we have laws to protect clueless, inexperienced little 7th graders like you who have no clue how to survive in the adult world and make the difficult decisions that go along with being there.

Tell him, "Aw that's nice, sweetie - ask me again when your nuts have dropped out of your body and you have armpit hair, a college degree, and a steady job. Until then no I am not going to give you my virginity because I will get pregnant and you will vanish and I am not ready to be a single parent for at least another decade."

Answer 3

Your boyfriend needs a good smack for putting you under that kind of pressure. If you want to be funny tell him that he can propose to you once he has enough money to afford to buy you a rock(preferably a diamond) the size of an egg. Unless he's rich. Then he might actually do it. But if you want to be serious, tell him that you're way way way too young and that you don't even want to think of marriage at this age. If you really do actually love him (not just lust) then maybe he can buy you a promise ring. A promise ring that means he'll always be there for you and that someday you could become engaged. And that promise ring SHOULD NOT just be a substitute for an engagement ring. Personally though, I think you shouldn't be propesed to until you can spell it.

Answer 4

Tell him your too young! I got married when I was really young I wont say how old because people have nasty opinions about it but I missed out on a lot of things. And it is so hard on a young girl! I know you dont think that but really it is. I speak from the past! I have a wonderful son, and a rocky marriage. Im afraid if you get married now it will be the same for you. Wait untill you 18. That would be my adice! Go out party have fun. Be a teen, you can still be engaged but set the date for right after your 18 b-day. Please!!!!!

Answer 5

at age 14 you have your whole life ahead of you. you do not know who you are yet, much less who he is. you are still growing into who you will be. and this may sound more harsh than its supposed to but you need to see what else is out there. don't rush into marriage, heck you cant even spell proposing correctly yet. marriage is supposed to be for life, not during high school. also dont think that you should be having sex whith him, if youve thought about it. i dont know how old he is, but that could pressure you, or heaven forbid you get pregnant, and then almost have to stay with him. just take it easy, enjoy life, enjoy high school. when you get older youll know what true love is and what marriage entails. marriage is a lot of work, a lot of give and take, i know, im married. good luck, and be smart and safe.

Answer 6

You are far too young for such a big step. Tell him to be patient and wait until you both are older before accepting a proposal of marriage. Enjoy being a child and stop being in such a rush to be an adult.

Answer 7

First of all unless you know how to spell proposal, your not ready to be married. Marriage is not a game, it takes alot of hard work , and committment. And if your boyfriend is over 18 somebody should be calling the police!

Answer 8

Say NO! You guys are not ready to marry yet, trust me. You guys still have a whole bunch of time ahead of you to experience. He's not "the one" for you. If you guys end up marrying, its not gonna last long. Besides you guys are not ready to handle the responsibilities of the marriage life, like paying bills, getting a career, etc...

Answer 9

Just tell him gently that you are not nearly old enough to be thinking about marriage... like i'd say wait at least 6 or 7 more years! Is this guy financially ready to support you? Can he even drive?!?

Answer 10

Turn him down gently, you's are way to young,even for a long term engagement,so much will change for both of you in the next several years, if yous stay boyfriend girlfriend,for a few years,then,yous can decide together,OK!!!!