OK, well me and my friend havent hung out with each other in a month. And by hanging out i mean spending the night with each other. The reason why is whenever i ask her to spend the night or if i can come over, she says she is either spending the night with one of her sisters or she is doin something with her parents. And today i asked her if she wanted to come over tonight and she said she was goin to the movies with her boyfriend. I would go to the movies but i have a church thing to go to tonight. So i figured since we were really close, she would want to spend the night with me. But i guess she would rather hang out with her boyfriend instead off me. So what should i do?
2007-03-24 09:37:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
As friends grow up together, sometimes they grow apart. She's dating now...and is juggling her time with her sisters, her family or her boyfriend. (as well as either school or work). Perhaps she didn't fancy going to the church with you tnight so she chose to spend time doing something with her boyfriend instead. People do change and do grow out of things they used to enjoy doing.
All you can do...is do what you want to do. You want to go to the church so go to the church. Next time you and your friend sit down , try to have an honest conversation. Ask her straight out why she doesn't really have time to spend with you anymore. Everytime you ask to get together, she's always busy. The only way you're going to get the answers to your questions is to go to the source and ask straight up* GoodLuck*
2007-03-24 09:47:07 · answer #1 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
kk
sum1 called cassanra just asked this question so i'm gonna tell u exaactly what i told her.
what you have 2 do is act like you dont give a ****. Start hanging with another gal , tell her secrets and pretend your having a wicked time infront of your old best friend. If she comes and sits next to you say "sorry, this is private" or "dis is an a,b convo, c urself out of it".
The next day apoligise for doing it and say you only did it becouse you felt left out.
Then do the same thing again, have a good time with your "new best frend" infront of her face and if the teacher asks for a volenenteer say "me n my new BEST frend will luv 2".
keep doing this for a week.
When she eventually comes running back make her think that she needs you more than you need her.
Say things like "well i guess you have to sit with us since there's no space anywhere else" and
"if you really need to, i gues you can talk to me for 2 minutes b4 my new best friend comes" even though your happy she's talkin 2 u again.
Neva forget to say the 4 most important words :
MY NEW BEST FRIEND
2007-03-24 16:58:36 · answer #2 · answered by Alicia ... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend might have some other reason for not wanting to hang out with you, and then again she may not. Don't freak out about it, that's the worst thing you could do. What you should do is talk to her. Start out with "hey, we haven't been able to hang out much together, do you really want to? Is there anything wrong that you'd like to share with me? My mind is open and I'll listen to anything you have to say." Do not judge, her be accepting and kind, there may be something going on in her life that you don't know about. Don't try to force her to tell you what's wrong, just let her know that you're there for her and willing to help her work anything out.
2007-03-24 16:44:09 · answer #3 · answered by Beckham 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try getting A new friend. Joining clubs is a great way to make new friends!.
I'm sure there is loads of girls just DYING to be your friend!
You just hav'nt noticed them yet!
2007-03-24 16:43:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it doesn't seem "right" that your friend basically ditches you over her boyfriend but that's usually what happens with young romancers, don't you think?
2007-03-24 16:52:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she might be hesitant to be with you maybe because she a girl who just wants to have fun and maybe your a church freak or she might think you embarassing to be seen with or she is tring to tip you off by purposly doing that but you too blind hiding behinde your bible! JK lol
2007-03-24 16:45:14 · answer #6 · answered by Abby K 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
talk to her a have the same problem with my friend just tell her how you feel
2007-03-24 16:41:19 · answer #7 · answered by butterfly girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about it
it will all blow over
2007-03-24 16:42:43 · answer #8 · answered by Emo_Gurl™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋