Right now I'm unemployed and I take care of most all of the household chores and such (cleaning, cooking, ect). But I'm about to start a full time job, and I know I will need some help. I've tried to talk to her, but she just doesnt seem that into helping.
2007-03-24 09:30:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would sit down and come up with a plan for division of household chores. (I am going to assume that she is working f/t.) So tell her that now that you are going to be working f/t too, you should make a schedule so the household can still run smoothly and you guys will have more quality time to spend together in your off-hours.
Honestly, if she still seems disinterested in doing her share, I would be having a fit.
2007-03-24 09:38:56 · answer #1 · answered by Clarissa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well as long as yer not employeed.. no sence screaming about it yet... keep doing what yer doing.. when you become employeed.. things change... and just do your half... It will likely sort itself out eventually once she gets tired of a stack of laundry in the middle of the living room floor LOL.. Oh yeah there will be some arguments.. face it.. shes gotten used to having a housewife.. can ya blame her?
2007-03-24 16:49:12 · answer #2 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see that is the mistake hesitation , she is ur wife means u r friend and mother and...................
without telling her any thing ur only assuming
u have to tell her how much u nee her in household chores,
with out telling her any thing how can he helps u
how can u expect she is not helpful
u have to tell her in speak with her in leasuretime
got it
good luck for ur new job
2007-03-24 16:41:35 · answer #3 · answered by Raj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of times things one spouse does for the other goes unnoticed and the best way for her to realize how much you're actually doing is to just stop doing it. If you're going to clean, clean up only after yourself. If you're going to cook, only cook for yourself. Hopefully she'll soon realize that she needs to pull her share of the weight.
2007-03-24 16:36:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Really needs to be sorted before you start work,how about saying if I cook tonight can u wash up?
2007-03-24 16:38:01 · answer #5 · answered by RAINBOW 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi..
try to compare her with some other women like her friends ur friends and all!! and make her feel out of place!
2007-03-24 16:41:55 · answer #6 · answered by ghanoooosh 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋