when your boyfriend won't talk to you..says he needs to "clear his mind", but your gut tells you that you need to talk to him now..i'm just so upset, and i feel like i need to talk to him or i will go insane...he just doesnt understand that we need to talk in order to resolve our issues, they won't go away on their own.
2007-03-24 09:21:14 · 21 answers · asked by xoxo_sexy_biatch_xoxo 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Leave him alone. If you keep chasing him, it will only make him resent you more because you are going against his wish. Find something else to do to occupy your time. Call a friend, walk, read, etc. Be patient, he will eventually call you and the two of you can discuss the situation, but I repeat... do not chase him.
2007-03-24 09:25:36 · answer #1 · answered by Nunya 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You look alot like that girl I am always talking about. Wishful thinking though. Anyways, you just need to talk to him. He will be stubborn at first but if he is smart eventually he will start paying attention and Listening. (Even if he listens halfway, that is progress, as He will more than likely think about that half all night). That there is some good advice. Though It only works on some men. Not all.
2007-03-24 16:26:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you could try to write him a love note and say your sorry, or just break up and go to counseling!The best way to get over him not talking to you is to just go hang out with you friends and have a good time!
2007-03-24 16:24:49 · answer #3 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunatly you have to deal with it because you cant force hime to talk. I deal with this alot. Just have to tell yourself you have no control and try to think about other things. Sorry to hear about that. Good luck :(
2007-03-24 16:23:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some time, to think things through, and then make sure to talk things out, when you have both calmed down.
2007-03-24 16:24:01 · answer #5 · answered by Rowan 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give him some space he may need to clear his head in order to talk openly and honest.,and give you the best conversation .It may be very rewarding for you as well as himself Be Patient
2007-03-24 16:28:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs his space. If you call him and start questioning him and saying we have to talk, he will leave you for good. Respect him enough to let him be for awhile!
2007-03-24 16:26:14 · answer #7 · answered by nicholettejohnson 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my hubby does that too! but best thing u can do in order to keep from getting beaten is to just leave him alone and let him be a retard until hes "ready" to be nice. but yeah, i have to leave mine alone or else i get beaten.
2007-03-24 16:33:16 · answer #8 · answered by waterlily750 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get another one. just joke. let him have some time to clear his thoughts and then sit and talk, but don't put your eggs in one basket so to speak.
2007-03-24 16:24:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that you just need to give him time, if you need to talk to him, do it, but if you feel like you cant and he will get mad, then dont talk to him, and when he says he needs to clear his head, it means he is under alot of stress, trust me, it'll work out, e-mail me ok i can help more...............sk8ter_for_life_666@yahoo.com...........
2007-03-24 16:25:02 · answer #10 · answered by j dizzle 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋