I'm really wondering... what kind of youngman chooses to be engaged to the wrong youngwomen THREE TIMES??!!!
The one I'm talking about got officially engaged for three times & every time he just discovers that she's not the one he wants so he breaks up with her.
So I can't stop asking myself why does he keep repeating the same mistake over & over again??
2007-03-24 09:11:52 · 6 answers · asked by lamo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The man is 28 yrs old... he was engaged to 3 different young ladies..
I'm not engaged to him & I was never before... but may be deep down inside I'm planning to ;)
2007-03-24 09:21:37 · update #1
If after 3 times and he breaks off an engagement he is very indecisive about what he wants. Someone like is usually that way most of their life. If you can't make up your mind about you really want sometimes it becomes a lifestyle. Now, if we give him the benefit of doubt and say he did find something in these 3 young ladies, then he does have a problem of choosing the wrong person. Can that change? Yes, but first you have to be able to realize why you do this. Some of us do repeat the same mistakes over and over, that alone doesn't make us a bad person, because hopefully after the 2nd mistake you have learned not to repeat. As the saying goes, 1st time shame on me but 2nd time shame on you.
2007-03-24 09:30:59 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He is in a rut and needs to find out why he keeps going back to her. Sounds like he is on the spin cycle. Are you interested in him? Make a move, as you only live once! Good Luck!
2007-03-24 16:15:12 · answer #2 · answered by lee911 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are engaged to him why do you care? He is obessed with being attached to someone for some reason. Stay away from him romantically.
Good luck!
2007-03-24 16:14:52 · answer #3 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that it is a method of possibly getting 3 young women into the sack. Either that or he is a very confused young man and doesn't know what he wants so I would suggest that you would simply be either his next conquest or his next mistake - whichever fits.
2007-03-24 16:48:51 · answer #4 · answered by nidan 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
At least he is deciding the women are wrong before he marries them!
2007-03-24 16:14:45 · answer #5 · answered by destine4_69 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fear of commitment.
2007-03-24 16:14:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋